Complexity

Where I can see where Beowulf is coming from I think the same thing should happen to Hunger as it did with HH's wife.

She needs to go be with the OM then see him for the scumbag that he truly is and then decide if she made the right decision.

I think what Hunger doesn't realize is just how low men who mess with married women are considered to us guys, there's alot more to him than he's letting on and she will surely find this out.

Hopefully by the time this all said and done Hunger would've learnt a valuable life lesson, her husband would've gotten his sh!t together and found someone that will adore him just as much as he adores Hunger.

Hunger

What?? No i didnt.

Hunger

lol.. no no no. That is not the OM. I just thought by the way the guy posted that he knew me personally. That is all. Deep breathe. ;-)

Hunger

I know you are not the OM. Sorry for the confusion. I did ask for feedback. Thank you.

bandit.45

So Hunger....

Do you have a contingency plan when hour husband ODs?

Hunger

The last thing I want is for my H to stand by while I self-destruct by having no control over the situation. I removed myself from our home and filed for divorce because I am aware that I have been sitting on the fence. The reason why I did this is because I love my H. It may not be the type of love between a H and W and it is very tragic that I went through with a marriage without realizing this completely, but I know I love him. All I think about is how he is feeling and I want to hold him and comfort him and tell him that everything is going to be alright, but I dont know that and although right now he thinks that is what he needs; its not by any means and I can't continue to give him false hope. I hope you are right when you that you hope my H finds someone that adores him just as much as he adores me. All I want is for him to be truly happy.

Hunger

OD's?

bandit.45

Overdoses and dies.

Hunger

Bandit I dont even know how to answer this. Not sure what you are looking for........... ?

bandit.45

Because if he does, at that second all your confusion about how you feel for him will clear away like a mist in the breeze.

I hope it doesn't come to that for you to realize how you truly feel about him.

I don't know where I'm going with it either. Just food for thought.

Hunger

I do have something to say... but hold that food for though. I will be back in an hour.

Shaggy

You keep saying how much you want your husband to be happy.

Yet you keep choosing the choices that bring him pain and suffering.

So your claims are proven to be lies by your actions,

And you are attracted to the POSOM. Seriously what is wrong with you? You got a great guy who loves you, and you choose a scumbag who happily cheats with a married woman. Well we know you share the same values of the OM, you've got that in common.
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bandit.45

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Beowulf

The OM is a scumbag but she doesn't see it. She is doing what many women of today do. She's with a guy who loves her and worships the ground she walks on and her response is to walk all over him. Then she hooks up with a guy who doesn't care one damn thing about her and she's willing to throw away her marriage because she can't stay away from the a$$hole. Funny thing is she's justifying her actions by saying she loves her husband and doesn't want to hurt him. Yet that's exactly what she keeps doing. Unfortunately its an all too common story. Just like I said to her in her original thread, someday she will look back on this period of time and it will make her sick to realize what she gave up due to her own selfishness and stupidity. I had hoped she was smarter than that but I guess not.

Complexity

Precisely, I think it's pretty strange character flaw women have. They're attracted to men who treat them like sh!t and have nothing but disdain for "nice guys". It must be something built in them as you often hear of their attraction to "bad boys" all the way from their teenage years and now it's this whole Alpha/Beta malarky. Consequently they proceed to ***** and moan about how bad their husband/boyfriend is treating them he's abusive,neglectful prolific cheater etc. I guess the old saying might be true- "treat em' mean, keep em' keen".

I can almost guarantee if Hunger develops a relationship with this guy, he'll step out on her as she did on her husband and she'll truly know the meaning of being worthless. Also Hunger, this man will never trust you or fall in love with you (despite all the BS he might say to get into your pants) because he's seen what you're capable of visa-vie your husband .

Who cares anyway, in the long run people reap what they sow and her husband will eventually find someone. Hunger however? well the guy with the "nice eyes" will take care of her.....