05-01-2012, 05:18 PM
Join Date: Dec 2011
| | Re: Day to day baby steps.... Feedback encouraged.
Originally Posted by Hunger
Thank you. I appreciate all of the help before. Some of the things written recently have really hit a soft spot because it is so easy for people to speculate from their own experiences. Although I understand the psychology; all of our situations are unique and not one person can truly understand what is going on inside my head.
I also don’t get the being attracted to guys that treat me like sh!t talk. No one is treating me bad and I have never been attracted to the “bad boys”.
You misunderstand what is meant by bad boys. The OM is not a good person. He knew you were married and manipulated the situation to his benefit. He used you for his sexual gratification and cares nothing about you other than what he can get from you. He is a bad boy and by sexually exploiting you and destroying your marriage he is treating you badly.
Hunger, this is the way of the new world. This is the new reality. Bad boys don't wear leather jackets and grease their hair. They wear suits and ties or T-shirts and jeans. They don't drive motorcycles. They drive Volvos and Volkswagens. They don't grab you by the hair and toss you around. They sweet talk you and coerce your panties off. Your OM is a new world bad boy and the fact that you don't see it shows me that you are still heavily fog bound.