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Old 05-07-2012, 08:43 PM   #226 (permalink)
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Who are you letting go, your husband or the OM? or both?
Both hopefully.
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Old 05-08-2012, 12:23 PM   #227 (permalink)
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Who are you letting go, your husband or the OM? or both?
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Old 05-08-2012, 03:21 PM   #228 (permalink)
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Good first step Hunger.
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Lets see if she can walk her talk.

I think she's done with hubby, but not her obsession.
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Old 05-08-2012, 05:32 PM   #230 (permalink)
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Yup,bs alarm is going off big time.
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Old 05-08-2012, 09:00 PM   #231 (permalink)
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Maybe OM is a chopper pilot and they went to junkie island.Life is a fantasy for some
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So Hunger anything new going on? Did you decide yet whether or not to divorce?
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Old 05-16-2012, 04:46 PM   #233 (permalink)
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It's just that the longer you hold on the more it's gonna hurt.
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My husband wont let me move forward with anything right now. He isn't contacting me but when we do talk he is in denial and doesnt want to talk about anything having to do with moving forward. We both get very emotional when we talk as well. Its tough. Sad story.
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I really really wish your husband would wake up. Wish he'd read this site and get counseling.
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I do as well for his sake. I do care about him as a person very much and miss the good times, but honestly I don't feel like there is any going back. I know I love him because it hurts me deeply to see him like this and especially to know that I caused this. We were so comfortable and for the most party happy before sh!t hit the fan.
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Just thinking now.....

I find it very difficult to not call or want to see him as well because I want to make things right and in my twisted thinking I just want to baby him to try and make him feel better; but I know I can't because he gets so sad when he sees me or talks to me. I guess a part of me wonders if I am just being selfish and wanting to satisfy my guilt by talking to him or if I just miss him. I am still holding on to both and it is killing me. I just need to get help because obviously something is wrong with me. :/
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You are trying to sit on two chairs. Get help and cut the guy loose.
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Old 05-21-2012, 02:32 PM   #239 (permalink)
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Yeah,somethings wrong alright.You dont have a heart.
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Hunger are you sexually attracted to your husband? If you miss his friendship but don't want him sexually then I don't know unless you try MC but looks doubtful and you must get rid of the OM totally
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