Re: Am I wrong to say no to WS hooking up with old GF
What you've done is reconcile but not forgiven (let go of the anger and bitterness in your heart). You must make the choice that forgiveness is for YOUR benefit not hers. If that means ending your marriage then so be it. You will never condone her betrayals and you will never forget them BUT you must exorcise the toxic twins that are poisoning not just your marriage, but your relationship with others and your own life.
"I have been bent and broken, but I hope, into a better shape"