Re: I am concerned my wife may have cheated
My take is that she was hanging out with a guy that night - went to the diner with him, really, really drunk. Then they went back to her hotel lobby, as she said, got obnoxious, almost kicked out, and then she went upstairs and puked.
Just my guess - but I am thinking she didn't have sex with the guy, but she did spend several hours, wasted, with another man. She realizes it looks really bad, and at the same time has to cover her a**. So she covered her a** by reassuring her friends that she didn't have sex, but wanted the string deleted because it would look really bad to an outside observer.
If this is the case, she still was very inappropriate with another man. No married woman should be out drunk with some guy, even just for a meal. That's a date. That's a date with the real possibility of sex. If she wasn't sharing rooms with friends, they might have very well gone up and done the deed. But they had no privacy.
I realize none of this explains the bleeding. I don't think some guy being a "bigger" than her H is going to cause bleeding. Seems far-fetched. It very well could be a clot. Nonetheless, her behavior was innappropriate and these types of GNOs really should stop - she's shown she doesn't have proper boundaries with men.