04-08-2012, 02:37 AM
Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Southern california
| | Re: I am concerned my wife may have cheated
The OP---has major problems, whether he likes it or not-----he has a wife who aids/condones cheating by her girlfriend---thus she is herself somewhat responsible for the possible wreckage of her GF mge., and if there are kids involved all the worse
AND---she has absolutely no problem with staying out with another man, a probable stranger, who could be any kind of pervert, crazy, druggie, criminal, rapist, or who knows, and she is with him from 2 to 5 A M, and then covers it up to her H.
He does not need anything else to confront!!!!!
What difference whether she bled, her being out with a man for 3 hours in the middle of the night, even while aiding her GF to wreck her mge., is all you need to raise a major confrontation
His wife has few if any boundaries---I don't know about the other 20 women in the group, but OP's wife, and her GF---were cheating-----there is no other way to look at it
You may argue his wife wasn't cheating per se---If so, then you tell me what kind of married woman watches/condones/aids, another married woman to wreck her mge.