river rat

Guys, I missed the post re her hysterectomy. In this case the bleeding does suggest some sort of trauma. Not a good sign.

the guy

rr,

She already told OP the gyno said it was just a glot, if it was really not that good I'm sure she would have made a bigger issue of it.

Beowulf

But he only has his wife's word as to what the gyno said right?

bandit.45

Her whole story stinks to high heaven.
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Gabriel

I'm not making excuses - just pointing out that posters are jumping to conclusions about the W's friend. What the W did was totally inappropriate. Several were asking what the W was doing while the friend was "hooking up". My point was to say that "hooking up" could have been happening right in front of her and thus she may not have been alone with some dude.

That all said, the OP needs a LOT more explanation.

jnj express

The OP---has major problems, whether he likes it or not-----he has a wife who aids/condones cheating by her girlfriend---thus she is herself somewhat responsible for the possible wreckage of her GF mge., and if there are kids involved all the worse

AND---she has absolutely no problem with staying out with another man, a probable stranger, who could be any kind of pervert, crazy, druggie, criminal, rapist, or who knows, and she is with him from 2 to 5 A M, and then covers it up to her H.

He does not need anything else to confront!!!!!

What difference whether she bled, her being out with a man for 3 hours in the middle of the night, even while aiding her GF to wreck her mge., is all you need to raise a major confrontation

His wife has few if any boundaries---I don't know about the other 20 women in the group, but OP's wife, and her GF---were cheating-----there is no other way to look at it

You may argue his wife wasn't cheating per se---If so, then you tell me what kind of married woman watches/condones/aids, another married woman to wreck her mge.

Thor

No it should not. They are completely solid state with no moving parts or tape cassettes. But if you want to be very sure, you can disable the speaker. You can plug in an earphone which should kill the internal speaker. Then just cut off the wire at the plug. It will not hurt the electronics to do this. Or you an open it up and cut the wire to the speaker if it is accessible.

keko

OP, any updates?

Posse

Nothing prevents the OP from demanding that the wife give consent for him to see her medical records from the Gynecologist.

Medical privacy is waived all the time. It happens in lawsuits frequently. My wife has access to my medical information and I have access to hers. This has been in place for a long time.

If the OP really wants to know, he just needs to ask the wife to sign a consent form. If she doesn't want to sign a consent form, that would be a HUGE red flag for me.