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Old 04-25-2012, 11:56 AM   #181 (permalink)
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No. The BIG guy has had his sights set on her for quite a while so he will be MORE than happy to see my H go. (Did I mention that she is a sl*t?) They usually dont ask you to reconsider at that place anyway. Its a big place they kinda lose people daily.

But Im preparing myself. He will probably HAVE to call.
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Old 04-25-2012, 12:01 PM   #182 (permalink)
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No. The BIG guy has had his sights set on her for quite a while so he will be MORE than happy to see my H go. (Did I mention that she is a sl*t?) They usually dont ask you to reconsider at that place anyway. Its a big place they kinda lose people daily.

But Im preparing myself. He will probably HAVE to call.
In front of you and on speaker phone by any chance?
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Old 04-25-2012, 12:04 PM   #183 (permalink)
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Does he have a recording app on his phone?
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Old 04-25-2012, 12:13 PM   #184 (permalink)
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Does he have a recording app on his phone?
I dont think so.
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Old 04-25-2012, 12:15 PM   #185 (permalink)
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In front of you and on speaker phone by any chance?
In front of me for sure probably not on speaker. Honestly, I can hear her thru the phone anyway.
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Old 04-25-2012, 12:31 PM   #186 (permalink)
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I dont think so.

so no smart phone? most smart phones have a basic recorder as a standard app that comes with the phone
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Old 04-25-2012, 12:52 PM   #187 (permalink)
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so no smart phone? most smart phones have a basic recorder as a standard app that comes with the phone
its a blackberry
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not sure about BB's

ask your husband, and if he has it record the meeting- that way if she tries something he has something to report her with and you get the added benefit of listening to what she tries to say
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Old 04-25-2012, 12:58 PM   #189 (permalink)
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not sure about BB's

ask your husband, and if he has it record the meeting- that way if she tries something he has something to report her with and you get the added benefit of listening to what she tries to say
I did, he said he didnt know either. said he's never had a reason to use that feature so he's not sure. I guess we could call the bb support desk at his job...
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well, Im sure there are free apps he can quickly download if he doesnt have one

https://www.google.com/search?q=voic...ient=firefox-a
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I hope she has a nervous breakdown right there in the office.


Was that bad to say out loud?
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Cantrustu...wow.. I've read this from the start, its like a made for TV movie, I could see Glen Close or Demi Moore playing her part..nuts, just plain nuts...

Hoping the very best for you and your husband...
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Old 04-26-2012, 07:23 AM   #193 (permalink)
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So as we know he has been working from home- REVOKED. AS of Monday he is ordered back to the office. NO suprise at all, right. So that means 7 days of THIS. I'm gonna need lots of support. I knew this would happen but it doesnt ease the blow when it does. He's kind of like I can say 'no' what are they gonna do, fire me? But honestly, that's prob not the best idea. So I gotta grin and bare it. ARRRGGG!!!
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Cantrustu...wow.. I've read this from the start, its like a made for TV movie, I could see Glen Close or Demi Moore playing her part..nuts, just plain nuts...

Hoping the very best for you and your husband...
And would we call the movie FML???
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So as we know he has been working from home- REVOKED. AS of Monday he is ordered back to the office. NO suprise at all, right. So that means 7 days of THIS. I'm gonna need lots of support. I knew this would happen but it doesnt ease the blow when it does. He's kind of like I can say 'no' what are they gonna do, fire me? But honestly, that's prob not the best idea. So I gotta grin and bare it. ARRRGGG!!!
I do like his reply to you though. It does show that your feelings are the first and foremost thing on his mind. Vent here anytime you need to. You'll get through this.
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