canttrustu

Well its working now. So now Im awake for sure. Im gonna put it in the back of my mind and see what happens the rest of the day and tomorrow. This is not a good start at all.

Almostrecovered

how certain are you that you were using the correct password?

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if he were to be having secret convos I doubt he would be using email if she's in the next office

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canttrustu

right. But even during the whole A their email was lit up like the 4th of July w/ the total BS they were feeding each other. And youre right, he knows I can see that now, but there are things he DOESNT know. I have learned alot in these past few months. If he is 'hanging' with her, I'll know. I will never blindly trust him again. So believe me when I say - I have my eyes WIDE open.

sigma1299

Two days CTU - two days. Just hang on.

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canttrustu

The email thing was not his fault. In his email there is an 'incident' report. He went thru the help desk on his bb to get it fixed. He did nothing wrong. Though I do suspecta certain OTHER person who would want to limit my access to his email.......she knows Ive seen the back and forth between them. It just no coincidence that she is back and things go a little nutty right off the bat. BUT the important thing-------he didnt do it. And he told me asap when he knew something was wrong. I do think he's on the up and up but Im still VERY cautious as anyone in their right mind would be.

Almostrecovered

good to hear, now go and slash her tires


(kidding!!)

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canttrustu

positive.

Almostrecovered

well now you have the explanation, as it did seem weird that he would do that on purpose considering the ease of communication by other means

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canttrustu

But she would if she trusted him but not me, right? Silly girl. She should have stuck to other womens husbands....as she has in the past. And yes, the ease of communication is not a comfortable position for me to say the least.

I would say its gotta be similar to being drawn and quartered.

highwood

I gotta say...I hope one day Karma bites her big time in her ugly ass!!!!

better than before

I so believe the Karma bus rolls for all who deserve it!! Good luck today- seems like despite the rough start you are working through it together!
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canttrustu

For the first time EVER, he spent his entire lunch hour on the phone with me. He has never done that. I see it as him bending over backward to reassure me and to say "Im not with her even when I could be. Im talking to you instead." In other words you guys; I got to be number 1 today!!!!! Its good to feel his effort again. Yesterday I got a card and flowers. so despite our rough start(which I am convinced he had nothing to do with) Now I need to think of something nice to do for him. Something that says " I noticed your effort today and I love you for it". I am making a really nice dinner and have made sure the house is spic and span. But Im coming up empty on what I can do for just that little something extra to keep him focused on home.

vi_bride04

A special kiss in a special place out of the blue on the couch while watching tv tonight....???

strugglinghusband

Wow...good for the both of you!!! hmm the little something extra...let your imagination loose...serve him dinner in something sexy....ya know like crock pot