Fingers and Toes Crossed!!!

canttrustu · 05-07-2012, 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by vi_bride04

A special kiss in a special place out of the blue on the couch while watching tv tonight....???

eh, think harder. I'd do that normally.

Im counting on you guys to be able to think straight today.

canttrustu · 05-07-2012, 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by strugglinghusband

Wow...good for the both of you!!! hmm the little something extra...let your imagination loose...serve him dinner in something sexy....ya know like crock pot

Weve eaten dinner naked before so keep thinking.

Almostrecovered · 05-07-2012, 01:06 PM

you're too kinky for me to be of any value

strugglinghusband · 05-07-2012, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by canttrustu

Weve eaten dinner naked before so keep thinking.

Eat dessert off of each other bodies? (make him his favorite)

canttrustu · 05-07-2012, 01:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Almostrecovered

you're too kinky for me to be of any value

oh PLEASE AR!! Ive read your stuff, what you just said-not true dear Turtle Man.

But I wasnt necessarily talking about the sex thing. Though Im not opposed to suggestions there either.

I was just talking about a 'pick me up' after what Im sure was a stressful day for him. I just appreciate his effort and want to express that but w/o words maybe or maybe in addition to words. I guess I mean Just saying something isnt nearly as good as showing it.

Guess what my love language is......

canttrustu · 05-07-2012, 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by strugglinghusband

Eat dessert off of each other bodies? (make him his favorite)

SH- I said I wanted to do something nice. Forcing the poor man to eat dessert off me???? I said I wanted him to WANT to be here not to make him throw up.

JK. You cant be sure thats a reward for him-I could look like 'Ugly Betty', you dont know.

strugglinghusband · 05-07-2012, 01:41 PM

I think by doing what you have planned and telling him your thoughts on it, may be more than enough? ....BTW..your post is the best thing I've heard all day...

better than before · 05-07-2012, 01:48 PM

I drove to work and put a really sweet card in his car not long after our R began- said he was surprised; sure he would agree hot sex is better

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canttrustu · 05-07-2012, 02:18 PM

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This time tomorrow you will be able to HEAR ME singing this thru the board!!!!!!

Ingalls · 05-07-2012, 04:59 PM

Yay CTU....I've been thinking of you all day!!! I was unable to be on here today until now! Sounds like you are going to have an AMAZING evening. I'm so proud of him for lunchtime with YOU

So tonight, special for him if you don't want sex (well you know what I mean-hehe), does he a favorite path or park to walk in, or movie place, or ice cream shop?? You can take him too?? Ha SEX does trump everything tho...but that's a given under these circumstances!!!

Good Luck!! YAY AGAIN so I am happy this whole crap is about to end for ya'll....

canttrustu · 05-08-2012, 08:43 AM

I think I can... I think I can.....One more day. No more of that damned blackberry w/her name all over it, no more emails with her name, no more demanding phone calls. Goodbye OW!!!!!! Just a few more hours.....

Almostrecovered · 05-08-2012, 08:52 AM

how does he have off until he starts the new job (I forget if he has one lined up already)

canttrustu · 05-08-2012, 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Almostrecovered

how does he have off until he starts the new job (I forget if he has one lined up already)

He does have some contract work lined up but nothing permanant.
First he has to have surgery tomorrow. Its been a helluv a year I tell ya.

strugglinghusband · 05-08-2012, 09:32 AM

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Originally Posted by canttrustu

I think I can... I think I can.....One more day. No more of that damned blackberry w/her name all over it, no more emails with her name, no more demanding phone calls. Goodbye OW!!!!!! Just a few more hours.....

(Kiss lyrics)
Just a few more hours
And I'll be right home to you
I think I hear them callin'
Oh, canttrsutu what can I do? Cantrustru what can I do?

You and your hubby have inspired me, there will stumbling blocks along the way,the both of you are committed to your marriage...remember its a marathon, not a sprint, in the end you will have reached the finish line together.

highwood · 05-08-2012, 09:41 AM

She has inspired me as well...to have to deal with him seeing that person at work every day...that would have thrown me in the loony bin. At least with H's EA she was across the ocean with no chance of them seeing each other in person.

I am so envious of couples that do not have infidelity in their past to overcome..because it is so hard and difficult to get thru at times. It just throws a wrench into everything you knew as a couple.