So yesterday was a really good day! He got his stitches out. He is starting to feel much better...BOW CHICA WOW WOW
Anyway, we've had lots and lots of talks. Most good, a couple of them have been rough. One in particular was rough. Its the part that bothers me most. How quickly he jumped in with her and that he thought he loved her...ouch. He knows now that it was all the fog but its still painful to me(and to him). Im thinking some of that hysterical bonding is starting.
My wedding ring is back on. I said I thought it might be time to put it back on-NO ONE has EVER moved that fast. He had it out and on my finger so fast with the biggest smile.
One day at a time. Its most definately a roller coaster at times but I think the mending has begun. I said "I love you" twice. Both times he was very effected to say the least. It was a bit uncomfortable(still feel the need to protect myself some) but it was right(thanks Sig)
I think we have communicated, real feelings, more in the last week or two than we have in 16yrs. Its amazing what you can learn about someone 16yrs into a relationship. Alot more has happened(too personal to put on TAM, but mostly GOOD) It will suffice to say Im starting to see my H again and not the stranger that took over his mind.