05-20-2012, 05:17 PM
Join Date: Mar 2012
Originally Posted by canttrustu
He had ALREADY mentioned this idea. He said he figured I had 'earned' an upgrade. I dont really see it a 'earning' an 'upgrade' but just a symbol(just as you said) that we are still here and together and fighting for our marriage everyday b/c its what we BOTH want.
I know its not gonna be all rainbows and puppy dogs for sure. There are still ups and downs-sometimes daily but i have made the choice to STAY because I think he is remorseful. And because I think we can come out better than we were before. I will NEVER be happy this happened but Im trying not to let it have been in vain.
Sneaking this in....but a week or so ago saw the movie The Vow on dvd and the mom who stayed with her cheating husband says that she CHOSE to stay bc of all the wonderful times. It was a really cool line!
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