jerry nice to hear from you. We all know that idiot had a thing going on with your wife. Your wife is very smart indeed in keeping it under wraps coz she does care about her job and reputation. It is time to snub this man. Do not create a breeding ground for the affair. Keep watching them but do not encourage them. Just ignore this man. You dont have to be nice to him. Dont invite him into yo home coz he will only make a fool.of you. He is so stupid. Dont play with him at all. Posted via Mobile Device
I hear ya!! If they are playing the game of seeing each other every 2-3 months then i will just wait for that day. Yes, she is smart. If she is doing something i know it's not about emotion with him, it's just sex.
the only thing we know is that this guy is inappropriate, he talks like a child, and presents a different character with his wife than with Jerry (in wife presence)... there still is not conclusive evidence to throw his wife under the bus just yet, IMHO
oh i know...but this slimeball does act like a kid, and the things he used to say about my wife in front of me is something i would never say to any ones wife.
The thing that gets me thinking is my wife may think of him as attractive by talking like that. That's her downfall, she is a strong/smart woman but guys talking like that make her weak. I can't explain it but i've known her for 16 years...
Agreed with iheartlife. You need to find a way to get her messages. Posted via Mobile Device
Just curious if you've already tried going online to her wireless carrier's webpage, typing her phone and email address in, and seeing if they already have an ONLINE account for that phone #--or not.
Just curious if you've already tried going online to her wireless carrier's webpage, typing her phone and email address in, and seeing if they already have an ONLINE account for that phone #--or not.
So i've been thinking of this post. I went to at&t website. But it's not asking for phone number. it is asking for login info and password.
So i've been thinking of this post. I went to at&t website. But it's not asking for phone number. it is asking for login info and password.
What I did was assume there was no account and walked through registering a new account for the phone. Understand there's already an "account" but they are distinguishing btwn online access to accounts vs. obtaining service.
One bummer, when I go to the AT&T website it wants you to create a "unique id" to link all your AT&T accounts. That may be tough to get past.
What I did was assume there was no account and walked through registering a new account for the phone. Understand there's already an "account" but they are distinguishing btwn online access to accounts vs. obtaining service.
One bummer, when I go to the AT&T website it wants you to create a "unique id" to link all your AT&T accounts. That may be tough to get past.
i know, everything i have is at&t now. I don't want to add her phone to my bill.
The most used scenario for this type of affair is for them to leave work. Like her leaving early but getting home at the same time. Or meeting at lunch or showing up late to work.
Has your sexlife changed at all, either more or less. Has she introduced anything new?
Any new dynamic in the marriage at all, even before you "noticed" something?
About playing it cool with him (which you should have with his first inappropriate remarks), you dissed him with the poker sub thing, and he dissed you back, this is a great oppurtunity to ditch him permanately so that any contact with your wife would now be inappropriate also. If your wife asks tell her you also heard some stories about him and what he's been doing on his job(for example). I might imply(joke about) an STD but not come out and say it.
I would also open her address book and change one digit of his phone number and see how soon it gets changed back.
The most used scenario for this type of affair is for them to leave work. Like her leaving early but getting home at the same time. Or meeting at lunch or showing up late to work.
Has your sexlife changed at all, either more or less. Has she introduced anything new?
Any new dynamic in the marriage at all, even before you "noticed" something?
About playing it cool with him (which you should have with his first inappropriate remarks), you dissed him with the poker sub thing, and he dissed you back, this is a great oppurtunity to ditch him permanately so that any contact with your wife would now be inappropriate also. If your wife asks tell her you also heard some stories about him and what he's been doing on his job(for example). I might imply(joke about) an STD but not come out and say it.
I would also open her address book and change one digit of his phone number and see how soon it gets changed back.
Chap has good posts in general, but we need to be careful about the first sentence "this type of affair". No affair has been proven or outed here yet. People tend to jump quickly to this conclusion. Let's see what he finds out.
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