Ok, next time you both go out, you notice that your phone's battery is dead. or your charger is damaged and you ordered a new one. In the mean time, you ask her the phone a couple of time . See how she reacts when you ask for the phone. If she gives you the password and changes it afterwards -- Red flag. If she is over rotective, redflag. If she does not, you can keep checking on it anyway,
Ok, next time you both go out, you notice that your phone's battery is dead. or your charger is damaged and you ordered a new one. In the mean time, you ask her the phone a couple of time . See how she reacts when you ask for the phone. If she gives you the password and changes it afterwards -- Red flag. If she is over rotective, redflag. If she does not, you can keep checking on it anyway,
What my WS always did (sorry if I said this already) was, 'sure, let me just quickly check my work emails' every single time, no matter the time of day. because his work includes companies from asia and people who pull all-nighters, I never suspected anything. What he was doing was quickly going into texts and deleting her texts. It only took about 20 seconds and then he'd hand me the phone.
Ok , I dont know if it has been already suggested but How about asking your friend to call you on wife's phone as your phone is dead or out of battery & your friend needs to talk to you for something very urgent . I dont think she would be able to refuse handing you her phone when your friend calls & asks for you for some serious issue . Then you can start talking & walk away outside (there is no way she can stop you from walking outside while you are discussing something very serious on the phone ) . Move to anywhere where you can view all her texts , pics e.t.c without any disturbence & after that you know what to do .
I dont know about others but to me this seems to be quite feasible solution .
Ok, update is nothing new. VAR is working good but if she texts him i don't know what they are saying. That birthday song on his birthday is very, very strange to say the least.
Thanks for all the help so far...
so if i do the spoof call, and his number comes up there is a log of past calls from him?
My call log just shows them serially, i.e., as each call comes in or goes out. Each one separately.
BUT--in my new blackberry that I've had since March, when I go into contacts, at the very bottom there is an activity log for that contact. It shows everything--emails, texts, ingoing and outgoing calls, in reverse chronological order with the newest stuff on top.
Just looking through my contacts,
one friend I only email--I see the last 5 emails between us
myhusband--I see me calling him on the work #, him calling me from his cell, and a text he sent me yesterday, so it's the last 5 activities exchanged with that contact, whatever they may be.
so if i do the spoof call, and his number comes up there is a log of past calls from him?
no Im saying that if you do the spoof call, she may notice that he called at the time (when it was actually you), hopefully they will just think it was a butt dial
no Im saying that if you do the spoof call, she may notice that he called at the time (when it was actually you), hopefully they will just think it was a butt dial
What i will do first is a test, delete the number after i call. I want to see if his name comes on the screen. Then, if a name does come up i will call again at another time when she is near her phone and see if she acts weird...
Update: Got the password to my wife's phone, my son actually told me it. I asked him to look and see what games my wife's phone has on it.
Going to try a backup with the BB software on my PC this weekend. Also, going to try the spoof number. Will be an interesting weekend to say the least...
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