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Old 04-11-2012, 10:18 PM   #76 (permalink)
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I was wondering if the topic was on SAHM VS SAHD. Jerry, update?
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Yeah, women talk a good game about wanting equality in the home and workplace, yet when they are the ones bringing home most of the bread, it always seems they lose respect for their husbands, no matter how hard the husband works taking care of kids and home.

It is thousands of years of genetic conditioning that have ingrained in women the need to be supported and cared for by their husbands. When they try to switch it around, it always fails in the end.
Some truly are hypergamous.
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Old 04-12-2012, 05:58 AM   #78 (permalink)
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Update: GPS was normal and i am listening to VAR now. I know it will take more than 1 recording but i am eager to find out.

In the past she has tried to act superior to me in front of people. I took care of that after a nice long talk last year. She makes really good money but it still does not give her the right to think she can walk all over me...I am a reason why she is where she is...
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Update: GPS was normal and i am listening to VAR now. I know it will take more than 1 recording but i am eager to find out.

In the past she has tried to act superior to me in front of people. I took care of that after a nice long talk last year. She makes really good money but it still does not give her the right to think she can walk all over me...I am a reason why she is where she is...
This isn't good. That's showing blatant disrespect. Whatever I did I would get out of the stay at home dad situation.
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Old 04-12-2012, 08:37 AM   #80 (permalink)
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i think she is being short sighted and naive if you walked out on her, her world would fall to pieces. I think it is about time she got reminded of that. Another long chat is over due.
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curious if there are any updates...
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Old 04-18-2012, 06:23 AM   #82 (permalink)
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yeah me too. Been wondering about jerry123
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he hasnt even been on since the 12th
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I was gonna say something about him being a stay at home dad but I see people have picked that up.
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Something big went down.
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Old 04-19-2012, 06:30 AM   #87 (permalink)
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Hi friends...no, nothing big went down yet. I am using GPS and VAR and still waiting. I've learned to be patient. Because in the end if anything is going on i will have to have proof and decided not to approach the wife without it.
VAR is working good, the feature where it turns off until voice is heard is great. Picks up clear voice even if her radio is on.
Thanks to all opinions and will let everyone know if i find proof...
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Hi friends...no, nothing big went down yet. I am using GPS and VAR and still waiting. I've learned to be patient. Because in the end if anything is going on i will have to have proof and decided not to approach the wife without it.
VAR is working good, the feature where it turns off until voice is heard is great. Picks up clear voice even if her radio is on.
Thanks to all opinions and will let everyone know if i find proof...
A lot of people have trouble with VAR. What model did you get and did you velcro it underthe seat?

Does she drop off kids in the car?
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Instead be something she isn't expecting, be a man that will not beg for his marriage , a man that will not tolorate it, and a man that is confident enough to give up his marriage if she continues. If she continues to deny, ask her to leave. If she admits, then smile, ask her if she want to stay married..
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She should be the one to beg for marriage!
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A lot of people have trouble with VAR. What model did you get and did you velcro it underthe seat?

Does she drop off kids in the car?
Olympus W-700, and got 3M velcro which i put under seat. VAR cost $100 and best buy but it works really good. Has 26 staight hours of record time on 1 charge. But it shuts off if no voice is heard so i can go 4 days on 1 charge.

I truly believe something happened last year in November. I had no GPS/VAR then so i have no proof. I think she may have felt guilt and stopped anymore encounters but who knows if the guilt goes away she may do it again but this time i will have proof. Patience is a virtue...
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