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You`d have to hack the iPhone to run any spyware on IOS.
The app store does not allow stealth monitoring apps in it`s catalogue.
You can use the "Find my iPhone" service through iCloud to track the phone through GPS if you have the Apple ID and password associated with the phone however.
Update: She has quit her job and has a few offers on the table. All of which will require some travel. There is a trade-off here, if she wants to keep earning a good living she will have to travel. We have discussed, and I think I can deal with it, but having a phone tracker would help me deal. She got rid of the corporate owned blackberry and bought an iPhone, so at least I will be able to see the bill. She is being transparent and we re seeing our MC weekly.
She is making an effort to do all the things I have asked, but with her job change I have a bit neglected as of late. The good thing is that we discussed it and the talk went well on both ends. We seem to be communicating better. Nonetheless the obvious challenges and day to day issues come at me. There are days I consider calling it. but then I look in my children's eyes and gain strength to keep up the fight. As long as I feel she is working at least as hard as me I will soldier on.
Update: She has quit her job and has a few offers on the table. All of which will require some travel. There is a trade-off here, if she wants to keep earning a good living she will have to travel. We have discussed, and I think I can deal with it, but having a phone tracker would help me deal. She got rid of the corporate owned blackberry and bought an iPhone, so at least I will be able to see the bill. She is being transparent and we re seeing our MC weekly.
She is making an effort to do all the things I have asked, but with her job change I have a bit neglected as of late. The good thing is that we discussed it and the talk went well on both ends. We seem to be communicating better. Nonetheless the obvious challenges and day to day issues come at me. There are days I consider calling it. but then I look in my children's eyes and gain strength to keep up the fight. As long as I feel she is working at least as hard as me I will soldier on.
That truly sucks, now every time she travels you're going to have triggers. Would she consider local jobs with similar or closer pay?(Not saying she wont cheat, but less likely)
well if you have transparency then you can compare the numbers to the texts on the bill she received/sent vs what she has on the phone, if any are deleted then you know something is up
however, your bigger problem is that there a TON of apps that allow for chatting that show no records, I would keep on eye on what apps she gets
well if you have transparency then you can compare the numbers to the texts on the bill she received/sent vs what she has on the phone, if any are deleted then you know something is up
however, your bigger problem is that there a TON of apps that allow for chatting that show no records, I would keep on eye on what apps she gets
That was my plan- compare the bill to the phone. Thanks for the heads up on the apps Posted via Mobile Device
in particular look for free texting apps, IM apps like Skype or yahoo, and gaming apps that have a chat option like words with friends or Scrabble, etc
well if you have transparency then you can compare the numbers to the texts on the bill she received/sent vs what she has on the phone, if any are deleted then you know something is up
however, your bigger problem is that there a TON of apps that allow for chatting that show no records, I would keep on eye on what apps she gets
Except that iPhone-to-iPhone texting never shows up on the bill.
Except that iPhone-to-iPhone texting never shows up on the bill.
You can turn that feature off in the phone. I forget where exactly but it's in the settings. You can tell the one's that go out over that service (iCloud) because they show up in blue instead of green.
Not perfect, because they can always turn it back on and them off again, but it makes for another hurdle they would have to be vigilant about and increases the chances that they will slip up if they are cheating.
And as AR said, compare the texts with the cell bill to see if they match up and monitor any apps installed. Nothing says they can't delete and then reinstall the app, but if they are doing that, then again it's another chance they will mess up.
I also look at the amount of data sent and received to see if there is a pattern to it. Texting apps and such show up as data (if not on wi-fi).
iPhone 4s Spyware 
There is a trade-off here, if she wants to keep earning a good living she will have to travel. We have discussed, and I think I can deal with it, but having a phone tracker would help me deal. She got rid of the corporate owned blackberry and bought an iPhone, so at least I will be able to see the bill. She is being transparent and we re seeing our MC weekly. 
