04-11-2012, 09:38 AM
Join Date: Jun 2010
| | Re: Inappropriate behavior or Cheating?
It's pure crap is what it is.
Women don't approach men for sex. So, unless his last name is Clooney or Pitt, these women aren't just coming on to him unbidden. He is flirting with them, telling them his fetish, and inviting them to satisfy his lust with pictures and videos.
It sounds like he's rationalizing his behavior by saying, since he doesn't have physical contact with them, he's not cheating. You can read some threads on this board to find many examples of loyal spouses who have been devastated by non-physical affairs by their spouses.
I wouldn't do it to my wife. And I wouldn't accept my wife doing it to me.