2yrs past d-day and .....

warlock07 · 04-12-2012, 08:23 AM

Might be TMI but I'll ask anyway

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dude she recieved a hard dose back in Feb '10 and took it like a champ.
Her butt hasn't been the same, which sucks b/c we haven't gone there since.

Was she physically hurt "there" that she can no longer do it?

happyman64 · 04-12-2012, 09:05 AM

The Guy,

Things will work out. Not too much sauce and keep the resumes flying out. And stop watching cheaters. We see enough of them here......

You should know by now "Obama" will save us all!!! Do not hammer me for the political reference. Hopefully I made you laugh.

As long as you are looking and the Mrs. Guy is right next to you everything will fall into place.

Best to both of you!

HM64

the guy · 04-13-2012, 02:22 PM

@Almostrecovered, ya we had mamosas with breakfast and keep going, hence why Mr.s the_guy was napping. I got a chuckel from the "organized" comment.

@warlock, when I confronted two years ago we did alot of role playing during our hystirical bonding and I know what I'm doing with her and I didn't break or tear anything, it just takes alot of work to do the butt and frankly I'm not that into it anymore.

beowolf, bandit,keko,
Thanks for chimming in.

Yesterday I got out side and got one of the companies job site trucks out of my yard and back to corporate, now it can sit at the office for all I care.

The transition will me tough but 13 years ago I gave up my blood sweat and *marriage* to the Corp. and now her it is I have my marriage back and .....no more Corp. and that is funny how it all works out.

My wife always told me "the Corp. was the devil" so now this time around with better skills I will have a better balance between my personal life and professional life. I just need to find a company that wants my professional life.

Back in the day the Corp. had both. I just hope at 45 I don't have to put my bags back on, but I will if I have to, and thank God for nail guns b/c swinging my hammer again will suck.

I am just a little concerned about getting sucked into my new company and messing up the balance that screwed up my marriage. as far as my fWW she doesn't want to go there again and would just bail rather then go back to her adultous behavior.

Right now i just need to find a company.

On a side note it seems like there is a ying and yang to life, kind of like years ago getting a solid job but lossing your marriage, now having a healthy marriage but not having work...or... having your best dog put to sleep but not having any more holes dug up in the yard? Lifes funny!

bandit.45 · 04-13-2012, 02:32 PM

Guy, are you in a carpenter's union? Can you go sign up at a hall for temp work? You may have to slug it out doing framing until you get a job doing finish/millwork again, if that is your specialty.

jen1020 · 04-13-2012, 02:37 PM

I'm sorry you lost your job.

I have to say though, I am quite shocked after reading your posts with regards to your attitude towards your partner and sex.

Jen

the guy · 04-13-2012, 03:09 PM

@Jen, my hole marriage is quite shocking, whats even more shocking is my wifes marriage, but as individuals we both take the steps to have a healthy one. After 21 years you just have to put all the old unhealthy crap behind you, and take a chance your spouse does the same, and in our case we both are and its really nice having a healthier marriaige with healthier behaviors.

And yes Jen when it comes to sex, I am wired a little different!

We are not the same poeple we were 2 years ago!

@ B- I don't want to say the name of the city (due to triggers for some :-)) but its not a union town. after 25 years as a builder I have the experience, my expertiz is rough wood framing.

jen1020 · 04-13-2012, 03:17 PM

Good to hear you have a healthier marriage now, I know I also cannot claim to always have had the healthiest of relationships either, but as you say you just move forward and think positive.

Best wishes

Jen

the guy · 04-13-2012, 03:29 PM

jen,
I wanted to add that with moving forward and thinking positive, I also believe that there is a beahvior that often gets lost.

So many go into a relationship thinking what does this person like about me when it should be what do I like about the person.

jen1020 · 04-13-2012, 03:40 PM

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So many go into a relationship thinking what does this person like about me when it should be what do I like about the person.

Oh, so very true.

Jen

bandit.45 · 04-13-2012, 03:45 PM

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Originally Posted by the guy

@ B- I don't want to say the name of the city (due to triggers for some :-)) but its not a union town. after 25 years as a builder I have the experience, my expertiz is rough wood framing.

Sorry if I offended you. From your posts I inferred you were a finish carpenter.

Be that as it may, there are always companies looking for an experienced framer. I used to dabble in building spec homes and finding a framer who knew how to turn the angles on hip roofs and frame stairways properly was like finding a needle in a haystack.

the guy · 04-13-2012, 04:26 PM

No offence taken.
I love that stuff, cutting rafters are fun as long as I got a kid to move em around for me, my favorite thing isframing spiral stair cases.

Finish work is fun but I don't have the patience. It usually takes me longer to patch, puddy and cualk the hack job from rushing. But when I have the time and no dead line I can put out some nice cabinets and trim work.