Whats the big deal with an EA? (EA vs PA Question)
Trying to figure out the whole EA issue? I read about a lot of people on hear that were "DEVASTATED" by their spouses EA. Which to me seems a bit melodramatic and/or over the top. I understand a PA, which of course means that your spouse was shagged by somebody else; this I can relate to as being devastating as they were intimate together, their was an exchange of fluids etc..
It may just be my understanding of the term EA, but it seems as though it encompasses texting, sexting, talking on the phone, talking about their relationship, being buddy buddy etc.. but not physical.. all behaviors which are uncool, and I don't condone. However, none of which I see as "Devastating or heart wrenching" more or less along the lines of just acting stupid. Left unchecked this behavior could certainly sow the seeds for something more insidious but you can't convict before a crime (Minority Report).. and since nothing "physical has happened" it is not the end of the world so to speak..
If someone could clarify or give their perspective it would be much appreciated...
Not trying to minimize how others felt as we are all different, just trying to a better definition of EA...
Last edited by Bandit; 04-13-2012 at 12:49 PM.