04-20-2012, 10:38 AM
Join Date: Aug 2011
| | Re: Best Way To Approach
Originally Posted by lordmayhem
Steel yourself for about what you're about to read. Some of us need to know what we're forgiving. It can be devastating, but you'll know what you need to do.
Thanks. I feel a shell of my old self and feel like I'm going through the motions. In a way, it is a false R on my part. She has done most of the things needed to help us repair but providing details of what exactly happened and why it happened are still missing. I pressed for those answers early in the R and never made much progress. "I don't know" was the common answer.
Maybe now I'll get what happened and can figure out what to do from there. I feel that you've got to know what you are dealing with before you can actually deal with it.