05-25-2012, 07:17 PM
Join Date: Apr 2012
| | Re: Just found out my wife cheated
Has she ever admitted to you that she just liked his attention, plain and simple? That she found him attractive and it made her feel special? Why does she have to warp this into some convoluted explanation about meds, and alcohol, and being messed up, and depression running in the family?
Did she sound depressed and suicidal to you on the VAR?
It is so dang frustrating how the cheater's mind works. All you want is the truth.
I just wonder how many times she needs to hear, "it's not the sex, IT'S THE LIES" before she will internalize it and live it.