04-23-2012, 10:34 AM
Join Date: Apr 2012
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She is an emotional roller coaster! She would get angry then depressed then everything would be great. Over the years I just accepted this as normal as did the kids. I think she is defiantly sorry that she got caught. She lost me, my son (i told him everything, he is 19) and her family. My 13 year old daughter is the only one that doesn't know the truth.
Originally Posted by iheartlife
Confused34, I am so very sorry. I know this has knocked you flat with shock.
You need to get tested for STDs, like yesterday. A dr. as chap says can help with antidepressants, you will need them because this is a long-haul situation no matter which path you take.
Serial, casual cheating for a woman is serious. Most women (studies show) need to feel in love with a man to give him sex. They decouple from their spouse and bond with a new man. The fact that it was with more than one man indicates that she does have some major problems.
Can you share with us--BEFORE you found out about this--was she super self-confident and put you down? Did she think the world revolves around her? Or was she needy and had self-esteem issues? Either way, brace yourself for someone who is broken and may not be able to be fixed. She's got a very long road before she can prove herself to be worthy of you once again, be very careful, she may only be sorry she got caught.