04-23-2012, 08:54 PM
Join Date: Jan 2012
| | Re: Need to vent
Do not shy away from spousal support and child support. Do not buy her bs - she'll start with (1) you weren't paying attention to me, then (2) I am so stressed out, and (3) midlife crisis and (4) depression and (5) needs to find herself and (6) things have been bad for a while. All revisionist history or pure BS that she may or may not believe. If you challenge her on it, she'll make herself believe more. Truth is, she always was or has become a bad egg.
In addition to STD tests, you may want paternity tests, or your kids might. You are their father and that won't be broken (like the severe bond that will be broken between her and them).