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Old 04-25-2012, 01:30 AM   #76 (permalink)
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please leave her in the dark and work your exit plan then once all your ducks are in a row....confront.
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Old 04-25-2012, 01:31 AM   #77 (permalink)
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sound like she hanging out in Henderson, cant think of any part of town that ritsy?

Any way with a licence plate# and an address the PI can get the rest. You might be able to go on the internet and find more info.

Again take a breath and make a plan right now the more information you have the more power.

This could be some consistant affair with these poeple or worse. what are you realy dealing with.

I guess at this point does it realy matter to you...a deal breaker?

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Old 04-25-2012, 01:35 AM   #78 (permalink)
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I'd put a PI on her, it should be cheap you have alot to go off of. It just so curious I'd want to know who and what is realy going on.

Is Mr. BMW pimping? maybe it just a BF who like to swing? Really who are these poeple?
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Old 04-25-2012, 01:42 AM   #79 (permalink)
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Is this for love or fun or money?

Regardless, very disturbing.

My advice would be to hold off on confrontation, sit on this info if possible until after you see the lawyer and get all your ducks in a row.

It doesn't sound like this is the kind of thing you will be able to get past and reconcile.
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Old 04-25-2012, 02:11 AM   #80 (permalink)
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OH MY GOD! What a swinger and a cheater she is!!

What's the point of a PI now that you have the pictures of her kissing with 2 other dudes? You have pure evidence to show here there!
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Old 04-25-2012, 02:25 AM   #81 (permalink)
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I would want to know who Mr, BMW is and whos house it was. I'm thinking OP won't know the extend of her affair. To me it looks like a escort set up. Did Mr. BMW go inside with the couple?

If it was me I would want to know the true extent of my wife affair, b/c we can both agree the WW wont give him the truth.
I see it as getting unaswered question, that all.
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Old 04-25-2012, 02:55 AM   #82 (permalink)
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the only good thing that comes out of this my friend is that you now know the truth and you can start to move on in your life and not have to be wondering anymore.

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Old 04-25-2012, 02:57 AM   #83 (permalink)
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i dont know, I wouldnt even confront her... this is totally disgusting, a swinger!!! just leave her be, dont give her the satisfaction of confrontation... i mean what can she really have to say?
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Old 04-25-2012, 03:04 AM   #84 (permalink)
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This should come to you as no surprise my friend. Tomorrow go to a divorce attorney's office and file for divorce.
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Old 04-25-2012, 03:04 AM   #85 (permalink)
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Today you are dealing with facts, and with that, you can make accurate dicision.
IMHO OP is up one more then most, no gaslighting, no limdo, and the pure fact that any dicision will be based on true fact and not suspicion, speculation, or even accusation.

A confidence that shamwow had when he pulled the trigger!

Enless you believe your WW when she tells you they are just friends or "business asociates" .
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Old 04-25-2012, 06:38 AM   #86 (permalink)
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If it makes you feel better find out who everyone invovled in and put them on cheaterville.com.

Good luck
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Old 04-25-2012, 07:01 AM   #87 (permalink)
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It seems your W is a high-priced hooker/escort. I don't view this as a person whose fallen in love and is leaving you for someone else. She's using her looks and body to live a very subversive lifestyle.

Going back to her comment about not worrying and MC....not sure what the "don't worry" part is anymore. Maybe she thinks this is just a job and thus doesn't view it as cheating.
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Old 04-25-2012, 07:03 AM   #88 (permalink)
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You got what you need. Time to leave. Have your boys continue the surveillance for the courts, but it's time to go. Time for the 180. Make yourself better.

Just go.
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Old 04-25-2012, 07:12 AM   #89 (permalink)
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Is she close with her family?

If she is time to send out pictures of her.
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Old 04-25-2012, 07:40 AM   #90 (permalink)
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Do not confront. I hope you read this before you go home.

Get all your ducks in a row.

See an attorney.

Then confront. Use a PI as well.
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