Another example of how toxic new friends can ruin not only the person but their spouse/family as well. Shame.
Oh please. Don't blame the toxic friends. She's not a child to be easily affected by her friends.
She's an adult, concious of her actions and should be held responsible for what she does.
Well there you have it. Not a surprise at all. But that doesn't make this any less horrific.
What you need to do though, is get yourself healthy. Work out as much as possible, drop the weight ASAP. Spend a lot of time with your friends - it sounds like you have excellent ones, and that will help you tremendously. Lean on them.
Just wait until you drop the weight and look better, become more confident and even get another girl. Your EX might even get jealous.
Bottom line is your W has been in this environment so long that she has simply become completely shallow. The shallowest person I've ever heard about on this board.
Get well. Put her behind you and move on. She is not normal. This isn't how people behave in the real world.
Your wife is a sociopath. Be forever grateful that you are rid of her. Now start working on getting yourself into better physical and emotional health. Good luck. Prayers of all of us are with you.
From what you say she is being paid to be one of the single women inthe group.
If I were you and had the money, a PI would get info/pictures on all the members and out them all. Starting with cheaterville.com. Anytime someone googled their name..............bazinga
I know we all agreed to not do this any more, but...
From being a little paranoid about a new gym membership to uncovering a huge secret swinging lifestyle, just 3 1/2 days later? With full admission of an "initiation" night? There were even a couple of mentions of Penthouse Forum stories.
And they're going to help her with an apartment? Swingers club? She's a wh*re, plain and simple. So they write the check for the apartment or give her cash. She is a prostitute. I know you want to move on, but the thing about good friends, they can be very vengeful when someone they love is betrayed like this. Don't be surprised if the sh!t starts hitting the fan in her life, real quick.
Good riddance. Go get yourself tested for STDs and start getting yourself into healthy shape. Nothing helps a person feel great about him or herself than taking good care of his or her body.
Hopefully one day your soon to be ex-wife will experience her own cripling health issues and will be dumped by those she considers her friends.
One thing I don't get is she gave up a steady marriage, good husband, house for a sex parties. She probably doesn't even have any real savings or retirement. Can't people in these situations see just a few years ahead? What will happen to them? That they're being used and will be thrown out sooner or later.
One thing I don't get is she gave up a steady marriage, good husband, house for a sex parties. She probably doesn't even have any real savings or retirement. Can't people in these situations see just a few years ahead? What will happen to them? That they're being used and will be thrown out sooner or later.
Easy and cheap people like her don't have enough brain to realize what they're losing.
I know we all agreed to not do this any more, but...
From being a little paranoid about a new gym membership to uncovering a huge secret swinging lifestyle, just 3 1/2 days later? With full admission of an "initiation" night? There were even a couple of mentions of Penthouse Forum stories.
speaking of which, what happened to the Wow....'s thread?
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