04-23-2012, 12:18 PM
Join Date: Apr 2012
| | Re: My world is crumbling
Originally Posted by ParachuteOn
(Originally posted this on highwood's thread by mistake, so sorry HW! )
This is terrible, truly. I understand that they get a dopamine rush out of their affairs that is like an addiction. But seriously, this is way out of the park. It is so planned, premeditated and meant to benefit himself at your expense. All for him and to he!! with his wife and family? And the woman is younger than your son??
Sorry you have to go through this. I am also in R. It is so hard because you don't know what the truth is. The thing that kills me, is that THEY KNOW THE TRUTH. They know what is going on. And we have to run around trying to figure it out while they stall, lie, minimize, blame-shift and gaslight.
Don't let him make a fool out of you. You are right, if you are nice or talk about the weather or be in the same room, he WILL see that as everything is alright. My H is the same way.
Be strong and please take care of yourself. BTW, why do you feel that he thought he got away with it? What skills did you employ to catch him?
Was this meant for me? I don't have a son...