Need Guidance With Exposure and Execution of 180

Shaggy · 05-15-2012, 11:10 AM

This is outrageous that your wife's company is paying her to take the OM out on the town!

Is your wife in drug sales to doctors? I'm wondering what kind of industry routinely has married women taking guys out on the town partying and drinking?

Shaggy · 05-15-2012, 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by YPbPr

Also... What some responses I can have ready when and if OM contacts my W about me calling him.
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You could deny, saying the OM must be crazy!

keko · 05-15-2012, 11:30 AM

Denying it has a problem, what if he shows her the phone records?

turnera · 05-15-2012, 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by lordmayhem

Is the OM married or has a GF? I don't know if you want to contact the OM at this point, it usually doesn't do any good, and besides, he'll deny it anyway. It would be better to expose the A to his BW or BGF. If he's such a big client for your WWs company, that means he's got money and assets to lose in a potential divorce. Therefore, he will quickly throw your WW under the bus in an effort to save his marriage/relationship.

It won't hurt - and MAY help - to contact him, too. But do look for his important people (and boss).

turnera · 05-15-2012, 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by YPbPr

Also... What some responses I can have ready when and if OM contacts my W about me calling him.
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"Wife, REALLY? You are going to criticize YOUR HUSBAND for telling your AFFAIR PARTNER to leave your WIFE alone? What are you smoking?"

turnera · 05-15-2012, 11:41 AM

Time to show your strength. LEAD your family. It's what women want and what they find attractive.

YPbPr · 05-15-2012, 01:14 PM

Thx as always. I'm gonna call this afternoon. Fwiw, wife is not in drug sales.
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lordmayhem · 05-15-2012, 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by YPbPr

Also... What some responses I can have ready when and if OM contacts my W about me calling him.
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Or you could giver her the patented Tommy Lee Jones look:

It usually works for me.

YPbPr · 05-15-2012, 05:32 PM

Spoke directly to OM. I was very direct, said what I knew, said I'd badly expose him at work. He sound timid and weak. He even said how important work is to him. Told him to cancel all plans for tonight and to never talk to her again. I said he could an excuse for tonight but moving forward no contact and reasons for no contact. He sounded scared. W called 30 minutes later saying she's headed home and she is. Crisis averted for now. Thank you do much for sharing our wisdom.
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keko · 05-15-2012, 05:40 PM

Keep the VAR on yourself.

YPbPr · 05-15-2012, 05:44 PM

Keep the var on me? I have it in play on her
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iheartlife · 05-15-2012, 05:48 PM

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Keep the var on me? I have it in play on her
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He means, record what she says to you.

I think keko advised James Bond in another life, lol.
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keko · 05-15-2012, 05:51 PM

Yes record it when she comes home.

There are so many false domestic violence claims on men its not even funny.

Will_Kane · 05-15-2012, 05:52 PM

Recording your confrontation with your wife could protect you if she makes a false accusation to try to get you out of the house.

Cheaters feel entitled and can act irrationally when you cheat them out of their cheating.

YPbPr · 05-15-2012, 06:07 PM

Understood
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