iheartlife

Please don't let this be the explanation for a muti-week affair in a brand new marriage that should have been in its a honeymoon phase. Why did she think it was ok to respond? A self-confident woman in love with her husband would see this guy for the loser that he is. I suspect she has enough baggage to fill a moving van.
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YPbPr

I did a random spot check to check the login/password she gave me.

YPbPr

Understood

YPbPr

Yes.

YPbPr

I'm not letting it be the excuse. W is responsible for her infidelity but I can answer your question as to she thought it was OK to respond in the first place. Because she wasn't in love with her husband. He husband was being too much of a Nice Guy and her husband wasn't setting boundaries, apologized to keep the peace, and got treated like a doormat because he was a doormat. Therefore, W lost respect and went wayward. Is W weak for doing that, yes? Did I set my boundaries though, no. Is this another excuse from me to you saying it was OK for W to do what she did? No. I'm just being realistic/honest.

keko

Not to make you paranoid but for all you know she may be keeping that email within your boundaries and have another email?

Eli-Zor

Nowhere do I read that you have exposed the OM , is there a problem?

Edited: nor do I read you outing your SIL. It takes but a few moments to copy the template work exposure letter and send it to his company. It takes a minute or so to dial your BIL and inform him of your wife's affair and his wife's affair .


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StrangerThanFiction

This change of heart all happened withing 6 weeks of you guys getting married? Or am I getting threads mixed up? Married 3 months, she's been stepping out with this guy for 6 weeks?

turnera

So have you called OM's boss yet? Why not?

YPbPr

B*tch is crazy! W called to make small talk while driving. Started talking about us. She rescinded most of what she promised last night. Won't call OM on speaker phone, won't quit job (she outright told me she didn't think she'd have to), won't do the sitdown with the parents to talk about what happened (her sister and mom said they won't take part), won't take poly. Wants to find compromises for all actions. I keep saying these are must-have for me to continue. That's not a good enough answer for her.

I'm done. Filing tomorrow.

Not going to out others either. Going to hold those as bargaining chips for D proceedings. I think they'll help get what I want in the settlement. I can always expose after, too.

YPbPr

Can you point me to it?

Almostrecovered

I think it's in the newbie thread in my signature

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keko

What if she intentionally stalled you to file first herself?

Don't tell her you're divorcing, just have her served.

keko

To Whom It May Concern:

This letter is to bring a matter to your attention that may be a violation of your Company's Code of Conduct and/or other policies, procedures and business ethics.

WS and WS are involved in an extramarital affair that is taking place, primarily, in the workplace. Aside from the potential sexual harassment claims this situation presents, it also involves the inappropriate use of company resources and assets. WS and WS are using company time and company resources to further their affair. If you check the call histories on their office and cell phones along with their workstation computers, you will find the two of them are spending an inordinate amount of what should be productive work time to further their sexual relationship.

If you have any questions, please call me at xxx-xxxx. Otherwise, I will anticipate a response from you once you have investigated these concerns and taken appropriate corrective action.

Regards,

Shaggy

Did you get that var in place? Listen to it! Me thinks he has talked to her and told her to stand up to you and come to him.
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