04-30-2012, 11:46 AM
Join Date: Apr 2012
| | Re: Wife found out about emotional affair. There is more though. Do I confess or not?
Originally Posted by oaksthorne
Your are here to collect pats on the back from other soulless ones like yourself. Telling her would let her decide what she wants for her self. Being as obscenely selfish as you are, you should be able to get that. She has a right to self determination, just as you had a right to decide to betray your marriage and your wife; she has a right to decide if she want's to put up with it. I don't often get as disgusted as I have gotten reading all this self serving slurry you have ladeled out. I think you would be better off single, frankly. I say that because you have demonstrated by both your words and actions that you are the only person in your life that matters to you. Let her decide what she wants! You are not "protecting " her. You are trying to evade the consequences of your own actions, and protected your right to continue to betray her behind her back. If you tell her, you will cut off that avenue and you know that. That is why you are sooooooooo interested in "protecting" her. This is my last post to you, Right now I feel like I need a shower, but you have given me a bit of perspective about my own situation. No matter what my H has done, I go down on my knees in gratitude to the higher power that my H is not anything like you.
Good point, Fallen, do you really think you would even be in a marriage right now if your wife knew what was going on before you married her now? you marriage is founded on lies and she will find out! better from you then from someone else