Re: Help! He's so happy with OW:(
Honey, I wish I had the magic words to make everything okay and make you(and me, for that matter) see reality for what it really is. You see your WH for what he USED to be and you're secretly hoping he'll be that person again and come rushing back, begging for forgiveness. Am I right? Because I know I secretly have that same hope.
But the truth is, if I stop thinking emotionally and look at what my WH has done to not only ME, but our children, the past few months, I don't think there's any way to get over that.
There is so much truth to the phrase, "It gets better with time." Here you are, 3.5 months after he left you and you're still surviving! You might feel like crap most days, but you're doing it! You're providing a happy life for your kids and with time, you'll be happy too. I just hope that time comes sooner, rather than later.
Chin up, sister. WE didn't cause this. WE couldn't have done anything differently. WE WILL get over this!