04-27-2012, 03:39 AM
Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: New York
| | Re: Once more unto the breech...
Just Waiting and Morituri have given you good advice.
Your wayward wife is the Anti Christ my friend. Right now she is evil and you do not need her around your family.
If she can lie to your face about the affair and abortion then she is pretty messed up.
Go see an attorney right away. You need to setup child support and alimony asap in a separation agreement.
You also need to let the other mans wife know what he did. She has a right to be informed of what her husband is doing.
Remember you are not hurting their family by telling her of the affair. Your wife and her husband are hurting both of your families. You need to bring the affair out in the light. To kill it no matter if you want to R or D.
I agree about not going to HR if you have no source of income at the moment. Definitely see the attorney.
I am sorry you are in this mess. You are in the right place for advice.