Re: How often do you ask questions? Think about it?
Your feelings are warranted and valid.
I dont think one loses any dignity when choosing to work through an issue like this the best they know how. I am seven months past my divorce due to my ex wife's affair, and at this point, the shock of it has certainly waned, and anymore all that happens is that I wish I didnt have to see her as often as I do. (kid involved)
I am not harboring any desire at all to return to that relationship, and often cite her affair and secrecy about it as the straw that broke the camels back. Addressing it and moving past it however best you know how right now is all you can do, and that definitely involves some really difficult hurt to get out.
In your situation I would think that you have every right to talk about it as often and as much as you need. He just has to suck it up and take ownership. One would think his desire would be to help you through it as opposed to exploding, so that part kind of seems less than prudent on his part.
His delay, is not a denial.