04-29-2012, 03:35 PM
Join Date: Aug 2010
| | Re: 20th wedding anniversary
On my 20th anny with my FWW;
I invited the party and some showed some didn't, but as I stood there and looked over the small crowd of 10 poeple (2 were our kids) I realized it wasn't so much about the celebration for 20 yrs but the commitment my fWW and I made to heal our selves and start a new marriage with different poeple.
I'm not sure were I'm going with this but for us, our anny wasn't a celebration of 20 yrs but a introduction of 2 different poeple, in a new marriage, that are now muturer and wiser then they were so long ago.
To me it washed away all the abuse and infidelity. The 20 yr anny was more of a baptism, then a celabration of abuse and adultory that went on.
I hope it makes sense, b/c me and Mrs. the_guy have come a long way, and I hope you and yours do the same.