Re: advice needed about an emotional affair
And by the way, DO NOT tell her you are going to do this. No warnings or threats.
In fact, act very calm during your conversation, assuming the worst already. Believe 10% of what she says. Act like you have swallowed the canary (your impending exposure), like you have the edge, knowing what you are about to do.
The only way you don't hit that red button is if she is literally begging for you, and proves she is done. I highly doubt this is going to happen. But even if she does, then you have to keep your hand over that button while you stay very vigilant.