advice needed about an emotional affair

TDSC60 · 04-30-2012, 05:30 PM

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Originally Posted by countryboy

she is with him now for sure. she called me, but i can't make small talk with her. the only thing i want to talk about is the one thing she want discuss over the phone especially in the same car with him.

whether it is the money or comfort or whatever, i don't care now. i'm in such disbelief we are at this stage. i've been doing fine all day focused on getting my ducks in a row. that one phone call, her nonchalant way of talking when our marriage is crumbling and the thought that she has made up her mind but wont tell me is making me crazy.

Don't know how he knew OM was in the car but here is where I saw it.

keko · 04-30-2012, 05:41 PM

It doesn't make much sense. OP can you clarify that part? Is that you guessing or did she admit he was in the car?

bandit.45 · 05-01-2012, 12:19 PM

What happened to OP?

Almostrecovered · 05-01-2012, 12:20 PM

last logged on at 730pm last night

Shaggy · 05-01-2012, 12:30 PM

Anyone else worried that she and her bf pulled something on him?
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jinba · 05-01-2012, 12:50 PM

Yes - seems something is amiss - hopefully he's okay.

TDSC60 · 05-01-2012, 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Shaggy

Anyone else worried that she and her bf pulled something on him?
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Truthfully, I'm a little worried that Countryboy may be in a country jail. He was all over the board with his last few comments.

Not in control of himself as he should be. Considering what was about to happen.

CB - any updates? How did wife's return home go?

bandit.45 · 05-01-2012, 01:00 PM

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Originally Posted by TDSC60

Truthfully, I'm a little worried that Countryboy may be in a country jail. He was all over the board with his last few comments.

Not in control of himself as he should be. Considering what was about to happen.

CB - any updates? How did wife's return home go?

Hope the OM didn't drive up with wifey in the car. Betcha something went down.

Almostrecovered · 05-01-2012, 01:01 PM

hooray for speculation!!

keko · 05-01-2012, 01:02 PM

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Originally Posted by bandit.45

Hope the OM didn't drive up with wifey in the car. Betcha something went down.

They're newly weds, how else will they come home?

bandit.45 · 05-01-2012, 01:03 PM

Speculate, speculate speculate.... why the F not? This is a discussion board not a courtroom.

jinba · 05-01-2012, 01:04 PM

I don't think it's our place to speculate as to what may or may not have happened. We're supposed to be here for him when he needs us, aren't we?

While I'm concerned, I'm not going to try and guess what's happening in his life. I'll simply pray that he's okay.

bandit.45 · 05-01-2012, 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by jinba

I don't think it's our place to speculate as to what may or may not have happened. We're supposed to be here for him when he needs us, aren't we?

While I'm concerned, I'm not going to try and guess what's happening in his life. I'll simply pray that he's okay.

We're here to help, and speculate, and talk, and talk, and chat, and talk some more.

We are not unpaid therapists or priests.

TDSC60 · 05-01-2012, 01:07 PM

Bandit.45

I got the feeling the phone call from his wife was done while OM was driving her to the airport. Still have no idea why CB says OM was with her in the car.

Yesterday most everyone was screaming "VAR before wife gets back" at him time and time again and I don't think it sunk in.

Considering how calm he described his wife as, it is very possible that she got off the plane (maybe with OM in tow) and pushed some button that set him off. Airport security is a *****.

Gabriel · 05-01-2012, 01:37 PM

As much as we are dying to know where this is headed, in reality, stuff happens away from the computer and he is likely dealing with a bunch of stuff and doesn't have time to tell his internet posse right now.

Hopefully he comes back and fills us in and is open to more advice, and yes, speculation.