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post #196 of 216 (permalink) Old 04-30-2012, 05:41 PM
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It doesn't make much sense. OP can you clarify that part? Is that you guessing or did she admit he was in the car?
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What happened to OP?
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Anyone else worried that she and her bf pulled something on him?
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Yes - seems something is amiss - hopefully he's okay.
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Truthfully, I'm a little worried that Countryboy may be in a country jail. He was all over the board with his last few comments.

Not in control of himself as he should be. Considering what was about to happen.

CB - any updates? How did wife's return home go?
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Truthfully, I'm a little worried that Countryboy may be in a country jail. He was all over the board with his last few comments.

Not in control of himself as he should be. Considering what was about to happen.

CB - any updates? How did wife's return home go?
Hope the OM didn't drive up with wifey in the car. Betcha something went down.
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Hope the OM didn't drive up with wifey in the car. Betcha something went down.
They're newly weds, how else will they come home?
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Speculate, speculate speculate.... why the F not? This is a discussion board not a courtroom.
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I don't think it's our place to speculate as to what may or may not have happened. We're supposed to be here for him when he needs us, aren't we?

While I'm concerned, I'm not going to try and guess what's happening in his life. I'll simply pray that he's okay.
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I don't think it's our place to speculate as to what may or may not have happened. We're supposed to be here for him when he needs us, aren't we?

While I'm concerned, I'm not going to try and guess what's happening in his life. I'll simply pray that he's okay.
We're here to help, and speculate, and talk, and talk, and chat, and talk some more.

We are not unpaid therapists or priests.
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I got the feeling the phone call from his wife was done while OM was driving her to the airport. Still have no idea why CB says OM was with her in the car.

Yesterday most everyone was screaming "VAR before wife gets back" at him time and time again and I don't think it sunk in.

Considering how calm he described his wife as, it is very possible that she got off the plane (maybe with OM in tow) and pushed some button that set him off. Airport security is a *****.
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As much as we are dying to know where this is headed, in reality, stuff happens away from the computer and he is likely dealing with a bunch of stuff and doesn't have time to tell his internet posse right now.

Hopefully he comes back and fills us in and is open to more advice, and yes, speculation.
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We're here to help, and speculate, and talk, and talk, and chat, and talk some more.

We are not unpaid therapists or priests.
No - we're not. But there's so much REAL negativity here, why create (or fabricate) more?
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