Re: Messed up over wife's affair - what do I do?
The worst thing you can do is find reasons to blame yourself.
Look, you will never know why your wife has done this horrible thing. Some people when they hit their 40s just go off the rails, for whatever reason. My soon to be ex wife is doing the same thing as yours. My filing for divorce has not stopped her behavior but it at least got me out from under her.
Follow the advice you have been given. File for divorce, do the 180 and "go dark" on her to protect yourself. Start taking care of yourself and see to your own health and sanity. You cannot control what your wife does, you can only control how you respond to it.
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