05-04-2012, 11:46 AM
Join Date: Sep 2011
| | Re: I Cheated, Distant H forever??
Originally Posted by WhereAmI
I know you claim overworking was a problem pre-affair, but I say you drop it for at least a year and work on yourself without telling him he needs to change anything.
When you say pre-affair you actually mean pre-physical affair (PA), as her husband has good reason to believe that she has always been in an emotional affair (EA) with the other man (OM) their entire marriage.
With the OM finally admitting what the husband has always suspected (and the wife denying), that the OM has always been in love with the wife and was thus not just a friend (or a friend of the marraige), the husband has realized that his wife has never let him be the only man in her life. Since she has never really ever been 100% committed to only him, he is now doing some deep soul searching about his life and his marriage.