If so then when do you think date wise it would have possibly happened? Within the last week? Any late nights, any days she seemed happier or crabbier? Posted via Mobile Device
Re UTI: Many women get post coital cystitis. Not really related to hygiene. It is not uncommon for the primary care provider to prescribe antibiotics to take a single dose after intercourse for prophylaxis. Sometimes women are told to take one twice daily for 3days at onset of symptoms. She may have just had a little burning and treated herself. Don't infer too much from this. Lay low and continue surveillance.
If so then when do you think date wise it would have possibly happened? Within the last week? Any late nights, any days she seemed happier or crabbier? Posted via Mobile Device
I was mostly thinking she was going to do something in the next few days. not crabby but for the last few months she seems distant.
I just don't get this, you have been all over here business.
Is all this correct?
*VAR=check
*GPS=check
*BB back up=check
*keylogger=check...no computor if I remember correctly
Has she been able to account for her time? Is she coming home on time? Is her pay check smaller? Weres the hidden cell?
If she's cheating, she's good, real read at covering her tracks. In the pat month its only been 2 red flags, the birthday song and now the pills, correct?
Its got be work related, a coworker.
It may be time to call in a pro and hire a PI!
The only senerio I can think of is it a coworker and they use his car at lunch time or half days.
I forgot does she take business trips?
What is missing here? Everything seems covered but yet still no proof....
I was mostly thinking she was going to do something in the next few days. not crabby but for the last few months she seems distant.
Do you remember a particular date or event that may have triggered this distance? Was she like this before her November trip to the store ?? Did you guys have an argument ?? Distance can be caused by many reasons -- guilt about something included. Not to say she has anything she has to feel guilty about as everything you have investigated so far comes back with nothing. Have you tried to get some alone time with just her -- go on a date -- just have fun ?? Just something totally different for the 2 of you !!
Do you remember a particular date or event that may have triggered this distance? Was she like this before her November trip to the store ?? Did you guys have an argument ?? Distance can be caused by many reasons -- guilt about something included. Not to say she has anything she has to feel guilty about as everything you have investigated so far comes back with nothing. Have you tried to get some alone time with just her -- go on a date -- just have fun ?? Just something totally different for the 2 of you !!
Yes, this surveillance has been going on for a fair amount of time. Jerry, when was the last time you took your wife out on a date? People are talking about manning up and getting a job, and that's fine, but there is something masculine about telling your wife to get dressed up a bit because you are taking her to dinner. Don't even ask. Just get a sitter and do it. She'll appreciate you taking charge in this manner.
I just don't get this, you have been all over here business.
Is all this correct?
*VAR=check
*GPS=check
*BB back up=check
*keylogger=check...no computor if I remember correctly
Has she been able to account for her time? Is she coming home on time? Is her pay check smaller? Weres the hidden cell?
If she's cheating, she's good, real read at covering her tracks. In the pat month its only been 2 red flags, the birthday song and now the pills, correct?
Its got be work related, a coworker.
It may be time to call in a pro and hire a PI!
The only senerio I can think of is it a coworker and they use his car at lunch time or half days.
I forgot does she take business trips?
What is missing here? Everything seems covered but yet still no proof....
Is it possible that there is no affair so no proof to be had? Two red flags in two months with fairly heavy and fruitless monitoring.
Yes, she's either very good at hiding her tracks (which means she knows all of Jerry's tricks), or she's not having an affair.
I think Jerry needs to step back and lay low for a while to see if something happens. Women do get UTIs for other reasons, and from my experience they can sometimes feel them coming on. If she had sex with someone, or will shortly, there's no way all this monitoring won't reveal a thing. The GPS and VAR will show her at least in a place or saying something that she shouldn't be.
If they don't, I think it might be time to relax a little.
"Can someone educate me on why one would take UTI pills? I have no idea. Is that sex related? "
My wife gets them alot too, but she doesn't take pills for it, just complains about the lower back pain and strong smelling urine. She'll take cranberry juice usually. Reading up on it I discovered
that most UTI's in younger women are caused by sex. Bacteria somehow gets pushed into the urethra, and they say hard sex or alot of sex, or multiple sex partners often causes them. So far when my wife gets them I can attribute it to sex that we have had recently, but I remember my ex-wife got one suddenly when she and her BF ramped up their affair and we hadn't had any sex for three months. Sometimes they can be an indicator that a woman is having alot of sex or has changed sex partners.
"Can someone educate me on why one would take UTI pills? I have no idea. Is that sex related? "
My wife gets them alot too, but she doesn't take pills for it, just complains about the lower back pain and strong smelling urine. She'll take cranberry juice usually. Reading up on it I discovered
that most UTI's in younger women are caused by sex. Bacteria somehow gets pushed into the urethra, and they say hard sex or alot of sex, or multiple sex partners often causes them. So far when my wife gets them I can attribute it to sex that we have had recently, but I remember my ex-wife got one suddenly when she and her BF ramped up their affair and we hadn't had any sex for three months. Sometimes they can be an indicator that a woman is having alot of sex or has changed sex partners.
It may be a coworker and in that case i have no way of checking.
I just talked to her again and she is so pissed i accused her. She said she will never forget it. She keeps saying she has done nothing. I'm sure it will be a rough road ahead for me now...
It may be a coworker and in that case i have no way of checking.
I just talked to her again and she is so pissed i accused her. She said she will never forget it. She keeps saying she has done nothing. I'm sure it will be a rough road ahead for me now...
Like I said. Fake an apology, and back way off. Play it cool for a while. If in the end she's innocent you are going to look like an obsessive freak.
You need to calm the f*ck down and start thinking.
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