05-07-2012, 07:26 PM
Join Date: Feb 2012
| | Re: My wife cheated with my best friend
Originally Posted by MrArachnid
I just want to love her. I want to forgive her....and that is a process not a given. I want to believe that everything is going to be ok. I am believing that I am not infected with HIV. I just want my life back and as pathetic as it is she was a big part of it.
It's not uncommon for a BS to react in exactly that way at first - to want to restore their life, or to try to keep it intact. You might change your mind about that, more than a few times, as you progress through this. That's part of the process, too.