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Old 06-16-2012, 12:25 PM   #301 (permalink)
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Dashing off to Cheaterville.com now...

Back now. What a sad site.
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Old 06-16-2012, 12:30 PM   #302 (permalink)
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It is kinda sad.....and I am looking up my states laws first....
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Old 06-16-2012, 12:37 PM   #303 (permalink)
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So I have been reading the E-book...."surviving her affair" by Kevin Jackson and its pretty good. The book mentions PTSD by I guess there is a term being tossed around...Post Infidelity Stress Disorder. I thought it a more poignant term....and then I laughed when I realized the acronym.
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Old 06-16-2012, 04:06 PM   #304 (permalink)
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I am on the boundary of my comfort zone...she went out to "get a fathers day present" The GPS that the spy soft uses is only three satellite and it does not pinpoint closer than three hundred feet....she told me where she was going and she is there. I text and she texts back immediately....and told me to call if I need to....but anyway....ok...for me a little levity is one of my coping mechanisms....

Mickey and Minnie are standing before the Judge during their divorce hearing. The judge reads over the case and looks up at Mickey. "So let me understand this correctly, you want to divorce Minnie because she is crazy", asks the Judge. "NO", Mickey replies sternly, " I want to divorce her because she's F**king Goofy".
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Hey that's a good one.

So when you get the POS ex BF on Cheaterville send us the link so we can make rude comments about him.
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Old 06-16-2012, 04:11 PM   #306 (permalink)
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I am on the boundary of my comfort zone...she went out to "get a fathers day present" The GPS that the spy soft uses is only three satellite and it does not pinpoint closer than three hundred feet....she told me where she was going and she is there. I text and she texts back immediately....and told me to call if I need to....but anyway....ok...for me a little levity is one of my coping mechanisms....

Mickey and Minnie are standing before the Judge during their divorce hearing. The judge reads over the case and looks up at Mickey. "So let me understand this correctly, you want to divorce Minnie because she is crazy", asks the Judge. "NO", Mickey replies sternly, " I want to divorce her because she's F**king Goofy".
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Hey that's a good one.

So when you get the POS ex BF on Cheaterville send us the link so we can make rude comments about him.
I am making sure that I am not breaking laws first....but as soon as I feel comfortable I will not get into trouble over it.....it will be on and I will let you know.
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I am making sure that I am not breaking laws first....but as soon as I feel comfortable I will not get into trouble over it.....it will be on and I will let you know.
State laws have no control over the internet. You can post what you want.
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Old 06-16-2012, 04:33 PM   #309 (permalink)
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Yeah, man. You mentioned your wife's affair to some foreign dude (French? German? Welsh? you forget which, now) and he felt so angry on your behalf that he posted the story on Cheaterville.com.
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Yeah, man. You mentioned your wife's affair to some foreign dude (French? German? Welsh? you forget which, now) and he felt so angry on your behalf that he posted the story on Cheaterville.com.
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Diolch yn fawr! (Bit of Welsh for you, boyo!)
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Old 06-16-2012, 07:28 PM   #312 (permalink)
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Posted him to Cheaterville...will take 48 hours...so it says...I will post the link when available
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Diolch yn fawr! (Bit of Welsh for you, boyo!)
Call my sons boyo...in the states it makes it easier for them to know who's calling for them....especially in the southern states
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I am making sure that I am not breaking laws first....but as soon as I feel comfortable I will not get into trouble over it.....it will be on and I will let you know.
Are you stating the truth? Then you are 100% covered.
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Old 06-16-2012, 08:28 PM   #315 (permalink)
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She told me they were together a few times and she started to feel guilty and broke it off. After she told him it was over, he came over to our house to tell her he loved her....she told me that she yelled at him...told him to get the F out and not to bother her anymore.

This one thing doesn't make sense to me. Your wife describes the other man as raping her and threatening her. You describe other man as someone who was just out to use your wife sexually. If so, after your wife broke it off, why would other man come to your house proclaiming his love for her, especially knowing the butt-kicking you were capable of giving him?

Or did this part of your wife's story, about him coming over and telling her he loved her, turn out to be a lie?
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