My wife cheated with my best friend - Page 23 - Talk About Marriage
Coping with Infidelity Relationship recovery from the destructiveness of infidelity.

User Tag List

 242Likes
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Search this Thread
post #331 of 340 (permalink) Old 06-18-2012, 05:58 PM
Banned
 
Join Date: Oct 2011
Posts: 7,058
Re: My wife cheated with my best friend

Quote:
Originally Posted by MattMatt View Post
Yep. As a very dear mutual friend of my then girl friend and I said when she saw her with the new boy friend she had left me for: "Dear God! You gave Matt up for THAT?? What for? You DAD is better looking than him!"

I looked at my replacement and thought: "What the Hell is wrong with me that she gave me up for him?" (That was before I found out he was a 'millionaire property developer'.

Apparently millionaire property developer is some kind of code for fraudulent ex-con...
haha..Any good karma story here?>

warlock07 is offline  
Sponsored Links
Advertisement
 
post #332 of 340 (permalink) Old 06-19-2012, 07:47 PM Thread Starter
Member
 
MrArachnid's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2012
Location: Florida
Posts: 115
Re: My wife cheated with my best friend

Quote:
Originally Posted by warlock07 View Post
How did this f*cker get away with raping woman all his life? It is times like this that I wish for some vigilante justice
I have been asking myself this question a lot lately....the thing that bothers me is that I called him friend. I can say with a fair amount of certainty that he has done an incredible job of hiding his amoral side from me over the years. He knows how i felt about the mistreatment of women so, being the narcissist that I am fairly certain he is, he would have never showed that to me.

He would have acted with the degree of socially acceptable behavior that he knew I was comfortable with and I have disagreed with his views before.
MrArachnid is offline  
post #333 of 340 (permalink) Old 06-19-2012, 07:51 PM Thread Starter
Member
 
MrArachnid's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2012
Location: Florida
Posts: 115
Re: My wife cheated with my best friend

WTF!!!!! This Bast**D is bringing this to my front door. He sent the police to my door saying I stole his SH*T. His hard drives are "stolen" and I somehow am being fingered......what a bunch of Bullsh*t. Gloves are off. Bring on the fight. Now I have to deal with this. I am getting an order of protection ASAP. Yes, but not for my benefit...for his.


Anyone want to see the email traffic he started?
MrArachnid is offline  
 
post #334 of 340 (permalink) Old 06-19-2012, 07:53 PM
Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2012
Posts: 3,027
Re: My wife cheated with my best friend

How did you become friends? Sorry if already asked and answered.
Posted via Mobile Device
iheartlife is offline  
post #335 of 340 (permalink) Old 06-19-2012, 07:54 PM
Member
 
vi_bride04's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Mich
Posts: 3,908
vi_bride04 is offline  
post #336 of 340 (permalink) Old 06-19-2012, 08:16 PM Thread Starter
Member
 
MrArachnid's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2012
Location: Florida
Posts: 115
Re: My wife cheated with my best friend

Quote:
Originally Posted by iheartlife View Post
How did you become friends? Sorry if already asked and answered.
Posted via Mobile Device
He was n acquaintance of a friend. He and I were the same age and when you live in a small town and are one of 10 punk rockers you tend to gravitate to people more tolerant of who you are...he was into some of the same music and he an I would go out clubbing. We were roommates for a time until he got a woman pregnant. Stayed friends but I was on my bachelor high and he was settling down. Fast forward 10 years, he and I reunite and became close again. He has been there since before I met my wife, while I met my wife, and subsequently made her my wife....the birth of my youngest son.....F**K him!!

Last edited by MrArachnid; 06-25-2012 at 04:54 AM.
MrArachnid is offline  
post #337 of 340 (permalink) Old 02-22-2017, 05:12 PM
Registered User
 
Join Date: Feb 2017
Posts: 1
Re: My wife cheated with my best friend

After being married 3 years I learned of a 3 month workplace affair, we went to 6 months of counseling and other than the rare occasion when we had to drive past the sleezy no-tell motel where it occurred, I thought we were through it. 10 years later, after 2 children, I learned of 6-7 more affairs, including one with a brother-in-law and one with my best friend. These occurred throughout the 13 year period. We divorced. Things I have learned:
1) Time dulls but doesn't heal, I still think of the friend a few times per week - 20 years later.
2) I don't believe "once a cheater always a cheater" but I do believe this is true in the original relationship. If she/he cheated on you once then she/he is 90% likely to do it again - regardless of what is said or promised. They have already proven their selfish ability to ignore promises. They may not cheat in some future relationship but they will in your current one.
3) Get out before their are children involved.
twentyyears is offline  
post #338 of 340 (permalink) Old 02-27-2017, 06:32 PM
Member
 
Marc878's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2015
Location: Southeast
Posts: 3,150
Re: My wife cheated with my best friend

It lives!!!!!!! Another zombie!!!! Run!!!!!!'
Marc878 is online now  
post #339 of 340 (permalink) Old 02-27-2017, 07:07 PM
Forum Supporter
 
SunCMars's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2016
Location: North Coast Nationalist-burg, U.S.A.
Posts: 2,188
Re: My wife cheated with my best friend

Whew! Thanks Mark....Augusto, circa 1978.

I almost answered this dry-rotted post. My virtual "ink pen" would have administered a Puffer Fish voodoo potion that would have made it "semi-live", again!

In a former life I was a fierce Houngans.....one ugly SOB.

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.

The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall... Saved from harm by my friends.
SunCMars is online now  
post #340 of 340 (permalink) Old 02-27-2017, 07:29 PM
Moderator
 
MattMatt's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2012
Location: England
Posts: 18,908
Re: My wife cheated with my best friend

Zombie thread closed down.


http://mygeneralblog1.blogspot.co.uk
http://mygeneralblog1.blogspot.co.uk...-cheaters.html (Be afraid UK cheaters! CheaterVille has come to the UK!
MattMatt is online now  
Sponsored Links
Advertisement
 
Closed Thread

Quick Reply
Message:
Options

Register Now



In order to be able to post messages on Talk About Marriage, you must first register. Please enter your desired user name, your email address and other required details in the form below.

Important! Your username will be visible to the public next to anything you post and could show up in search engines like Google. If you are concerned about anonymity, PLEASE choose a username that will not be recognizable to anyone you know.

User Name:
Password
Please enter a password for your user account. Note that passwords are case-sensitive.

Password:


Confirm Password:
Email Address
Please enter a valid email address for yourself.

Email Address:
OR

Log-in









Human Verification

In order to verify that you are a human and not a spam bot, please enter the answer into the following box below based on the instructions contained in the graphic.



Thread Tools Search this Thread
Show Printable Version Show Printable Version
Email this Page Email this Page
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search



Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Handling a wife's emotional affair or maybe the EA of my wife's friend toward my wife WillK General Relationship Discussion 62 09-27-2012 11:13 PM
Husband cheated with his friend TexasGurl Coping with Infidelity 12 07-26-2012 12:55 PM
Cheated with Best friend, Now he's back. HELP TashaB Coping with Infidelity 295 01-11-2012 10:24 PM

Posting Rules  
You may post new threads
You may post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off

 
For the best viewing experience please update your browser to Google Chrome