Re: My wife cheated with my best friend
Mori and Entropy, I said that this "friend", was a bad one, but that is the easiest part for Arachnid to fix. He just cuts this "friend", out of his life. I fully understand the meaning and role of friends, but I'm trying to help Arachnid deal with his cheating wife, and the "friend", should have no part in that. He should concentrate on one thing at a time. A lot of WS'S will try to minimize their guilt by throwing the OP under the bus, and a surprising number of BS'S buy into it. I don't want Arachnid to make that mistake. Arachnid needs to focus all of his thoughts and feelings on his WW' s behavior, so that he can decide if he wants to take the chance on R or not. Or if she is worthy of another chance. His future depends on his decision and the so-called friendship is just an annoying impediment to clear thinking.