Re: My wife cheated with my best friend
MrA, at a time when your world has gone completely insane, and the the two people you counted on have proven that you cannot count on them, you are behaving in an extraordinarily rational fashion. I commend you. Don't be surprised when you have spells where this is not the case. I sense that you have a great deal of self control, in which you take pride. Be prepared for that self control to crack from time to time. It's all right when it does. That's part of your healing. You really can't know where this is going. Give it time. You're gonna be fine in the long term.