05-05-2012, 05:49 PM
Join Date: May 2012
| | Before getting married
Hi there -
My story is unfortunately landing into this category. I was about to get married, talked to the families, organizing an happy wedding.
As my future wife was really considering inviting an ex "friend with benefits" to the ceremony, I started to be suspicious, and used my IT skills to track any conversation between her an anyone, to understand her past life.
I found that during the first month of our relationship she was sleeping with someone else. I do not remember having any doubt during this time as she said she was busy with work. This also broke the beautiful moments of the beginning of a relationship.
I decided to delay the wedding, pretending that I am not ready yet.
I do fell cheated, and I am scared about the future with her.
Could you advice there? Would you marry someone that already cheated on you?