Ok. I just read this whole thread and all I have to say is - WOW.
Let's make a move already. It seems like you are nearly justifying your reasons away while dragging your feet. It's inevitable.
What did she said when you confronted her about the weird Nokia packaging in the trash?? PLEASE tell me you questioned her about that at least.
You need to find out who this man is. You're going to have to have her followed. I'm not sure what you mean when you keep referring to blogs, but I bet you anything she (untrustworthy people check up on their spouces too, even if theyre not suspicious) has probably read this whole damn thread and checks YOUR internet history. She's not going to be bringing the dude back to your place, especially since you dont have a job! Obvs the cheating is happening elsewhere. YOu need solid proof in the form or PI/Cameras at this point. Even if that means hiring the neighbor boy to follow her around for a few days in a friends car on summer break and pay him with beer, do it. I feel for you - but you're getting no where with this.
Please please someone out these evil cheating wh0res to their husbands. That thread made me feel so angry to read.
Wait, I read more on that site. These evil women should be put out on the street and spit upon by passers by. Wow.
My views on R have taken a real down spin after reading that stuff. I think maybe every BS should visit that site when they are considering R and read the stories about the games played by those cheating #$#$@ after D day.
Thank you for the post reference. When I initially saw those bruises, especially being symmetrical in nature, that got the ball rolling in my mind. I was just stupid about it, and did not do my homework before I opened my mouth. I have admitted this here several times. As the folks here say... Appear to return to a normal state and lay low. There will be slip-ups I will catch now that I am on my guard. I would like proof positive so I do not look like some lunatic. I may have to play the fools part now, but if it is going on and I obtain proof positive, no one will be able to label me in the end except... "He got smarter!" and for that feel I will be a better man!
Ok. I just read this whole thread and all I have to say is - WOW.
Let's make a move already. It seems like you are nearly justifying your reasons away while dragging your feet. It's inevitable.
What did she said when you confronted her about the weird Nokia packaging in the trash?? PLEASE tell me you questioned her about that at least.
You need to find out who this man is. You're going to have to have her followed. I'm not sure what you mean when you keep referring to blogs, but I bet you anything she (untrustworthy people check up on their spouces too, even if theyre not suspicious) has probably read this whole damn thread and checks YOUR internet history. She's not going to be bringing the dude back to your place, especially since you dont have a job! Obvs the cheating is happening elsewhere. YOu need solid proof in the form or PI/Cameras at this point. Even if that means hiring the neighbor boy to follow her around for a few days in a friends car on summer break and pay him with beer, do it. I feel for you - but you're getting no where with this.
The idea with the camera was to be able to watch traffic flow. This silver vehicle has been spotted at times watching my house, driving by and pomp pomp, etc. It is the only way to find out who the owner is and why he is doing such. It is apparent the positioning of the camera will catch what I can never... the plate number. I explained it!
Please please someone out these evil cheating wh0res to their husbands. That thread made me feel so angry to read.
I like your comment here. I feel the very same way. Some one said to me, "If you are sure, why not just leave now?" Glad some think it all that simplistic. I have a line for some... Look at the woman who is admitting to infidelity and what others have to say. If she is doing this and staying with her husband, she does not love him, she is using him. And she is nothing but a *****. She is a low down scumb bag! Then admitting to having sex with 'dear ol' hubbie'. How shameful !
Ok. I just read this whole thread and all I have to say is - WOW.
Let's make a move already. It seems like you are nearly justifying your reasons away while dragging your feet. It's inevitable.
What did she said when you confronted her about the weird Nokia packaging in the trash?? PLEASE tell me you questioned her about that at least.
You need to find out who this man is. You're going to have to have her followed. I'm not sure what you mean when you keep referring to blogs, but I bet you anything she (untrustworthy people check up on their spouces too, even if theyre not suspicious) has probably read this whole damn thread and checks YOUR internet history. She's not going to be bringing the dude back to your place, especially since you dont have a job! Obvs the cheating is happening elsewhere. YOu need solid proof in the form or PI/Cameras at this point. Even if that means hiring the neighbor boy to follow her around for a few days in a friends car on summer break and pay him with beer, do it. I feel for you - but you're getting no where with this.
Don't believe I made myself clear. I want the proof positive. And another thing... I have learned to keep my mouth shut. And if she is indeed checking my web history, it is to see if I am getting my game together. If she did read this thread on this site, then she well knows how I feel and that all of the things I have noticed lately are quite strange to me, and for whatever reason, feel taken in by it all. Just devastated to have suspicions, let alone RED FLAGS waving around me. If we could stop loving at a whim... there would be no hurt about love, would there???
The idea with the camera was to be able to watch traffic flow. This silver vehicle has been spotted at times watching my house, driving by and pomp pomp, etc. It is the only way to find out who the owner is and why he is doing such. It is apparent the positioning of the camera will catch what I can never... the plate number. I explained it!
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Originally Posted by Ben Connedfussed
Don't believe I made myself clear. I want the proof positive. And another thing... I have learned to keep my mouth shut. And if she is indeed checking my web history, it is to see if I am getting my game together. If she did read this thread on this site, then she well knows how I feel and that all of the things I have noticed lately are quite strange to me, and for whatever reason, feel taken in by it all. Just devastated to have suspicions, let alone RED FLAGS waving around me. If we could stop loving at a whim... there would be no hurt about love, would there???
I'm not sure that you undestood my post?
I know you want to find out who is in the Silver truck...and I hope you do. I'm just saying you could find out if she is cheating by hiring a PI or having her followed.
We certainly can't stop loving on a whim. I never said that though?? That's a good and bad thing about life and love.
I'm not sure that you undestood my post?
I know you want to find out who is in the Silver truck...and I hope you do. I'm just saying you could find out if she is cheating by hiring a PI or having her followed.
We certainly can't stop loving on a whim. I never said that though?? That's a good and bad thing about life and love.
I understand. I thank you for your support. I only wanted to say, after looking at the things going on arond me, it is apparent something is amuck. But to make a rash decision... no. But I feel I am no longer in limbo, but do believe a life changing decision should be thought out carefully. I also stated I do not believe this crap is going on now. It is more than likely undergroung and I have to do the walk, lay low and see what turns up. I suspect something will and when it does this time around, I will be prepared with better knowledge among other things. Thank everyone for their given support!
How is she behaving lately? Any difference in her work schedule(can you check her pay stubs)? How is your sex life?
It seems to be calming down, but I have became a learned person... keep the mouth shut. No different work schedule, just usual. My experience in that department seems to be returning to a normal state ... before the period when I started getting the gut feelings... way before I saw the bruises. It does seem to be a reconnection, however not reconciliation. How can it be if I have never got clear cut explainations for all the hoo-doo that has been going on. I must remain in stealth mode if I want to find out the truth... one way or another!
just keep your keys in your pocket at all times, and the next time the truck comes around, get in your car and follow it. If it notice you following and stop to question why you following him, tell who ever it is that you wanted to see who was coming in the area stopping an making all that noise. Have your cell ready to snap a pic of the tag. if he ask why, say just in case an leave it like that. But it might be one of his buddies trying to draw you away long enough for him to get a quickie an a chuckle with his buddies. if it was me, I would have done this long ago. In fact, the next time it happen, call the cops, an report a silver truck stopping on your street revving the motor and speeding thru the area with kids playing. It will still be in the area and the cops can find out for you who it is.
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