Re: Pregnant. might not be husbands
Nah, if she aborts the kid then, once the dust settles, she'll be banging around again - nothing learnt at all.
And she hasn't even considered the idea that he may find out regardless and dump her anyway.
I love your one mistake you happily repeated 6 times over.
It's not a mistake, Kate. It was a fun and lust fuelled rush that empowered you and made you feel that you had a better deal than your husband.
I think your mistake was in your judgement of the OM, you thought he was going to be something special, but you've probably come to realise that all those promises he made, the special feelings he gave you, were nothing but keywords to unlock your knickers and the OM was just using you for his own ends.
Tell me Kate, if you're not a bad person, why is your husband not entitled to truth.
1. Don't you think he can handle it (disrespect)
2. Do you think it will destroy him (think he's weak)
3. Do you think he'll leave you (selfish and manipulative)
I'll put a fiver on answer three please.
Kate, you and you alone are responsible for this situation - you need harsh words to get you to listen.
Do I think you're evil? No
Do I think you're a selfish and self serving coward who is more interested in protecting herself than anyone else? Yes.
I assure you, one day he WILL come to find out. Whether it's a month, year or decade, you will be held to account.
Do youself a favour, stop believing your husband to be a pitiful little man with no backbone and let him know the truth. Then he can decide what to do with his life.
I haven't really thought about the future that much, but when I die I think I'll go back to doing whatever I was doing for the fifteen billion years before I was born.