05-06-2012, 03:32 PM
Join Date: May 2012
Location: Near Chicago, USA
| | Re: I can't stop Cheating !!!! Desperately Need Advice !!!!
Originally Posted by ksalem
I have been told this is an excellent site to get help so im putting everything out in the open so i can save my marriage. Please PLEASE don't treat me harshly. I need help I understand this. But I need council not harsh judgment. Anyways some background ::: I am 28 been married 5 years and I have been cheating on my Husband religiously for 3 yrs !!! And I can't stop !!!!!!! I don't know what to do ??? Its an addiction I think.... im not sure. But I know he sooooo doesn't deserve this. He is extremely sweet treats me like a Queen. Terrific provider buys me everything i want and he is in good shape !!! So what is wrong with me ??!!!???!!?????? why can't i stop ??? I do love him but i need to wrestle myself free from this habit of cheating on him. Is it because i don't respect him ?? Is that it ??? He seldom argues with me and he is just sooooooo super nice. My Gf tell me I am Drunk with Power. Am I ??? Or maybe i am over analyzing. I don't know what to do. How do i save our marriage ??? How do i stop cheating on him ??? HELP !!! S.O.S. !!!!!!
Perhaps you don't respect him because he is nice to you.
If so, you are a masochist....someone who likes to be mistreated. I am sure the guys you cheat with neither like you nor respect you, they just see you as an easy FB.
The other possibility is that your husband is cheating on you. Perhaps he knows about your cheating and does not care.
While you are out with your FB, so is he. He treats you nice and gives you what ever you want to throw you off his trail, and/or to instill guilt in you.
Just something to think about.
If he isn't cheating, let him go. You can improve your karma that way and rid yourself of some of the negative karma accrued by cheating.