Read flags, Wife is lying and I'm long away at work

crossbar · 05-08-2012, 01:41 PM

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Originally Posted by cheatinghubby

Use of military time. It's the 1st way to tell if they work in the military or law enforcement.

And what he wrote above. Like he was writing marching orders or an ORM game plan.

catAndMouseChase · 05-08-2012, 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by cheatinghubby

Use of military time. It's the 1st way to tell if they work in the military or law enforcement.

Good thinking. You almost nailed it.

Almostrecovered · 05-08-2012, 01:47 PM

he's a spy!!

catAndMouseChase · 05-08-2012, 01:54 PM

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Originally Posted by the guy

If money is still an issue, take it out of the bank in cash and open a secret account, and then tell the wife that you needed if for work and the company will reimpurse you later on, then drop it. Or just tell her you need some equipment or started a new hobby. I'm sure you can figure out a way to hide this from with some sort of excuse.

I also suggest you take some time off of work due to a family emergency, then you can do some of your own invesigation. and use this time to plan for the worst.

Go see your doctor and get some meds so you can sleep. In my case I was taking Advile PM to sleep. You need your strength so take care of your health. Start working out and get to the gym and lift wiegths it helps alot.

I also started a journel and in this journal I made a plan on how to confront my wife. It helped alot, since the confrontation is so emotional it was nise to have a script to work off of and stay focused.

it will take some time for the PI b/c he is working in the dark but he will get what you need to validate your dicision and give you the confidence you will need when you confront her.

This is a battle sir and now is not the time to be weak, your family is at stake and its times like this that you muster up the strength to fight. Do not let this beat you so stand up and fight.

You will get through this...we all do

There are a few things that still need finishing in our house. I can get her to release the cash to the contractor without raising any suspicion. We operate separate accounts and she does not have access to my main account.

I do not intend to do the bulk of my investigation myself. I really see the risk of going to jail and I do not want that now.

I saw a counselor yesterday, it really helped. I have not had the courage to see a doc regarding the STD tests. I do not think my mind is ready for another beating - if there is going to be one. I need to get really good sleep before I can have the nerves to do this.

I'm about to join the boys to watch a football game. It should keep my thoughts away from this for some time.

Yes... I remember, no beer!

catAndMouseChase · 05-08-2012, 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Almostrecovered

he's a spy!!

She would have to have a lot guts to lying to a pro!

Almostrecovered · 05-08-2012, 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by catAndMouseChase

I really see the risk of going to jail and I do not want that now.

Really?

to be honest while some spy tech use is illegal in certain states. most prosecutors couldn't give a damn to prosecute and have bigger fish to fry

the guy · 05-08-2012, 02:03 PM

She's in an affair, so throw logic out the window. You could be the worlds greatest detective and when there is an affair involved your WW has an addiction and nothing will stop her until you confront , expose and give her the consequences for her actions.

Soon you will have the evidence to have an effective confrontaion, are you preparing a plan and are you fimilar with the next steps after confrontation?

keko · 05-08-2012, 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by catAndMouseChase

d) Since it is not possible to sneak in electronic surveillance, we are to use low tech for now.

Is the car she uses under your name?

If it is, you can give permission to PI to place a GPS on it. I don't know if the PI will be waiting 24/7 but if he is not this will come in handy.

catAndMouseChase · 05-08-2012, 04:20 PM

Back from watching the game. It was a high and now I feel so low!

The car is under my name. I will what my friend there can do about this. After all, all I need to do is to instruct the mechanics to get the car from her for maintenance.

I do not see the sense of having the PI shadow her 24/7. The first reason against this is that she is either at her work, the rendezvous or at home. There is an absolute low risk now of her bringing in somebody to the house because I conveniently found a close relative who is boarding there. The other reason is that my house is in fairly secluded area and a person lurking there watching would be obvious to a keen observer.

catAndMouseChase · 05-08-2012, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Almostrecovered

Really?

to be honest while some spy tech use is illegal in certain states. most prosecutors couldn't give a damn to prosecute and have bigger fish to fry

Spy tech is OK for me. I meant that it is risky for me to put myself in a situation where I can face to face confrontation with the OM. I might snap.

catAndMouseChase · 05-09-2012, 06:00 AM

This one is confusing. Last evening, she was late again. The story is that the one school bus where our kid attends broke down and our kid was stranded at school. She claims the school called her to pick him up. The strangest of all things is that she arrived home at 20:00 hrs (according to my resident observer), having picked him up at 18:12 hrs.

catAndMouseChase · 05-09-2012, 06:08 AM

I have the confirmation that the bus story is true. This is the problem of dealing with a person who is not trustworthy. Everything has to check out, but one does not - the drive from the school to our house is less that 15 min!

keko · 05-09-2012, 06:25 AM

How old us the kid? Can he answer some questions?
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catAndMouseChase · 05-09-2012, 07:09 AM

Just about 4 years. He can't tell.

Thorburn · 05-09-2012, 07:16 AM

My wife's phone is under Verizon and under my account. When I look at past bills online it shows where the location of where the call was made. In my case I can almost pin point where my wife was at during her A if she made or recieved a call. For instance she told me she was with the OM 5 times and had sex 4 times. By her phone record I know she had sex with him 6 times and was with him 7. The only problem I have now is that I have to wait for the current billing cycle to end before I can find out this informaiton online. I can't get it immediately to check on her. My son installed a GPS on her car and that is how we busted her. Had I know about the phone records online I could have done this earlier.

I could also get on her phone a GPS tracker but I would need the phone to activate it. At this time I do not need to do it.

So what kind of phone does your wife have? Whos name is it in? Do you know if the phone records show where the location of the calls are made?