Re: When does infidelity begin?
Tell all your friends (and anyone else who will listen) that physical adultery is the CULMINATION of an affair (unless it's a one night stand with a stranger). In other words, before there was the physical, there was the creation of a secret, private bond that she did not share with you. She shared intimate (whether physical or no) affection with this person, likely exchanged I Love Yous, all of which are betrayals of her marriage vows.
She is in deep denial about the horrible thing that she has done.
She is lying to herself and everyone else because she cannot face how terrible a person she is, to do this to you in such a passive-agressive, childish way.
Real adults ask for a divorce if they don't want to be married.
Immature cowards form "friendships" with members of the opposite sex, hide the relationship from their spouse, fall in love, get discovered, THEN move in with each other. She gets an "A" for adultery.