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Old 05-09-2012, 09:03 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Met up to catch up with some girlfriends and one of them tells me this story:

A guy, B, we went to school with way back in the day has been married for a few years now & has kids with this chick, K.

K has a a gal pal, we will call L.

L was out at a bar one evening recently and happened to see B sitting at a table with a woman having drinks who was not K. It was obvious that there was Something going on.

L did not approach him at all, but rather, took a picture of B with this mystery woman and put it on her Facebook for the entire world to see. B and K and L have a lot of mutual friends so she totally put him on blast.

Hilarious, right?
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Old 05-09-2012, 09:07 AM   #2 (permalink)
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I think I would have talked to K before sending that one off into the ether.
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Old 05-09-2012, 09:08 AM   #3 (permalink)
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I don't know if she spoke to her or not beforehand but she totally exposed it. It turns out, he was cheating on her.
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It happens. I know someone that got busted by his own kids via FB. That's sometimes safer than going directly to the BS and a picture is more powerful than words. Many times the BS doesn't want to believe it so telling them does no good.

Personally if my husband were cheating I wouldn't care how I found out as long as I did.
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Depending on the comments she made with the photo and how she went about posting it - she could have just captioned it with "cool, ran into B at the bar, see" or something non-accusatory and let everyone judge for themselves. Like Mavash says, photo speaks for itself, the bulk of the truth, whatever it may be, will filter through.
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FB actually was an ally to BS? Wow!!!!
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I don't know I'd kind of be pissed. Why didn't she just send her friend the picture? Why'd she expose it to the whole world?

Let the wife put it on FB, don't make the decision for her.
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I don't know I'd kind of be pissed. Why didn't she just send her friend the picture? Why'd she expose it to the whole world?
I don't know because I don't know the people personally nor do I associate with them. I was just telling you guys a story I heard.

Word on the street is he is a serial cheater.
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I don't know because I don't know the people personally nor do I associate with them. I was just telling you guys a story I heard.

Word on the street is he is a serial cheater.
I think it'd be a cooler story if the wife did it. Similar to what I ALMOST did to my wife, but stopped myself thank God.

I was going to copy her and her EA's sex messages and post them on her wall. Seeing her mom's expression would have been priceless (her mom thinks she was a virgin at marriage and that she never drinks and all this other unrealistic stuff).
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Yeah, that's absolutely hilarious.

It's even better than respecting "K"'s life and a situation and taking it into your own hands. Entitlement rules!




Seriously though, what about proper channels? Wouldn't that be K's business to deal with and expose?
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WOWZA technology in action welcome to the orwellian age kids
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Yeah, as the loyal wife I would have been mortified, but if she knew and okay'd it, then that's awesome. What a chump!
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If he didn't want the world to see him, 1) don't do it, or 2) don't do it in public.
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Outside of a poor decision to be seen in public, that correlates to appropriate behavior by the wife's friend. Of course.
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We don't know if she told his wife first she'd be doing it.

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