05-10-2012, 02:16 PM
Join Date: Aug 2010
| | Re: location question
If the A is a deal breaker= betrayed leaves
If the A continues=betrayed leaves
If A stops and NC is comfirmed= betrayed stays
Until the AP is completely out of the picture it is a losing battle, So expose the affair and asking the wayward to leave may give the A more time, but often it is this time that is needed to see how much of a fantasy it really is.
So sure the wayward and the AP have more time together, but then whats the excitement in all of that. Now the affair is a reality and with that comes real problems like controlling beahviors and finacial responseablities, and the reality of what these people are realy like when they no longer have to go home to there other life.
There is no other life and now the both of them have to face the real life of the day to day stuff and fact that others see them for what they really are.
Ok I'm done with my rant.